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re:Married
helo498 6 Reviews 2110 reads
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Why should it matter? Most of us have been with married women most of our adult lives.

I used the search feature bur got no results.  Not asking any provider to share specific onto but wondering if. Any providers are married.  Quite a few years ago I read an article in the Harrisburg pa newspaper about a woman was busted for prostitution and she was married!

Thats like asking if there are any hobbiests who are married.  

Of course there are.  

But its none of your business!

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The guys only asking a question Sphin you don't have to be an ass about it.

United States population roughly - 314,000,000
Female population % roughly 50% - 157,000,000
Female population between 18 and 65 roughly 50% - 7,850,000
Guesstimate of possible providers 1/10 of 1% - 78,500

Seems logical that there would be at least one or two married.

I know at least two.  Lady I saw in January admitted at the end of our date she was married.  Open marriage and she hinted that she and her husband were swingers.

Mortgages etc. I have met several lovely ladies that juggle full family lives while satisfying our hobbling interests . . .

Why should it matter? Most of us have been with married women most of our adult lives.

Thanks for the sincere replies.

It dosn't matter,the guy is asking a question, don't you people get it!!!  

Posted By: helo498
Why should it matter? Most of us have been with married women most of our adult lives.

Yes, many are married, and like Nolklylu said, many have kids and full families. One lady that I've seen several times tells her teenaged kids that she is a Private Investigator and has to go out on watch at night - yes you guessed it - to catch cheating husbands! What a great story. Those that aren't married often have boyfriends, many of which were former clients. Another said she will bring home a fellow provider as a present to her husband, sometimes for no particular reason, just to say thanks for letting me be a provider. Unfortunately, she is now retired.

Out of the older ladies I see, I would estimate that 50% have either a husband or a boyfriend that knows full well what they do and encourage it. Damn lucky men!

One of my ATFs was married with three young daughters.  These ladies are real people.

or, at least, it appears to have been a shocker for you!

Here's the facts:

Some providers are married or seriously involved, and their partners are fully supportive (some are lesbians, too, by the way, hope that doesn't totally blow your mind) :-)

Some are involved and their partners hate it but go along to avoid rocking the boat.

Some are involved and their partners don't know.

Some have boyfriends (or pimps).

Some date.

Some are single and say they could not do the job and be otherwise involved.

Some lie.

Some fall into a category that I have forgotten about (or never suspected!)


Now, if you want percentages, you'll have to ask Mr. Fisher, he's older than dirt. You know how they say that prostitution is the oldest profession? Well, he knew her. :-)

and maybe I did see the first hooker, and maybe I am a communist, and maybe I do keep percentages of everyone who is married, but I am NOT a communist.

So there!

Posted By: tmill9
I used the search feature bur got no results.  Not asking any provider to share specific onto but wondering if. Any providers are married.  Quite a few years ago I read an article in the Harrisburg pa newspaper about a woman was busted for prostitution and she was married!
One of my first TER dates was with a gal who used her husband's first name to create her alias.  Daughter had just started in the business on her own, which seemed to please her plenty, but said she just couldn't bring herself to do a double.  Daughter took too many risks!

Recently, I've dated a few TER beauties who were quite happily married, one whose hubby helped her with the business as her bookkeeper.  Her girlfriend tries desperately to keep her own husband in the dark about her dates and partying.  I think that the first of this pair is far happier in the arrangement.

One of my ATFs is married with a young child.  Toys all over the apartment and under the bed, which isn't too weird, except mom keeps her own set of toys under the same bed.  Now that will be an interesting conversation someday.  I bumped into the hubby and kid once in the elevator, even had a pleasant chat without realizing who they were at first.  Good thing I had pressed the button for a different floor as I got a text message from my date asking me to delay about 15 minutes for a short emergency.

I almost always book enough time to chat a bit before and/or after the party.  I have never asked my dates if they are married or in a relationship, but I've been surprised how many have volunteered that info.  I usually assume that the backstory I get is largely fictitious, and I have never gone digging to find out the facts.  In the rare instance where I have happened across a provider's real history, though, most of the details have been accurate.

but what difference does it make?  You are paying them to spend time with you, whether they are married or not.  Most clients are married, or at least I think they are, so what's the diff?  In many cases, married providers are swingers who's hubby's get off on seeing their wife have sex with another guy.  There are lots more important things to worry about in this hobby than if your provider is married.....

Swim

Ok, I've never asked a provider, although I am a relative novice.  When talking with a few it became evident that they weren't married and a couple referred to kids.  So, it just crossed my mind.  I would never try to intrude into anyone's personal life.  As I mentioned I recalled reading about someone who had been busted and was married.

Give tmill9 a break. he didn't say he was for or against providers being married. he just asked a question. and so far the only answers he has received are from guys. most all of us realize that many providers are either married or in a serious relationship. But, It seems that tmill9 hasn't met any providers that either haven't told him they are married or didn't feel it was in their interest to tell him.

the married ladies can definitely bring it...

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I have met a lot of gals that are married-I specifically know one who does incall at their home during the day and husband is totally aware of what is going on.  And of course many have boy friends-it stands to reason-many of we hobbyist's are married-why would we expect that the gal's wouldnt be?  And frankly-in my view them being married is a plus-not so much with the boy friends-you never know how the boyfriend might react even when they know...

are married.

Shocking?  Not really.  Married people have bills to pay, just like single people do!

And 2 of them are bad
1 They are co-equal partners in a loving and understanding relationship "....Good
2. The man is an abusive pimp......Bad
3. The man pretends to be understanding but is actually a closet psycho who will one day murder his wife and whatever unlucky client  she happens to be with that day.....VERY BAD

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