I'd say I am much more confident and aware... My first few sessions were kind of a blur... but they have always had a degree of give and take as we share some intimate time together... more as two equals learning, exploring, and pleasuring each other.
What was the question again?how has the Hobby changed your approach to the session. Are you more aggressive/assertive now that you have been in the game for a while or more inclined to let her take over? or no difference?
... but that can vary from lady to lady. Some ladies know what needs to be done and provide a good session.
Some ladies need a bit of "encouragement" to get things going.
However, I have found that if a lady is too much of a talker... I just lay down and let my member stand erect and say, "He needs someone to talk to" and onwards to a BBBJ. always works for me.
Old Mongers never die - and I've noticed they rarely fade away either.
I don't think I've changed too much. Probably a little more comfortable asking for what I want than in the beginning.
Whether I lead or follow seems to depend on my mood at the time - and on who I'm with (I can think of a couple to whom submission would scare the shit out of me).
I've had some of my best times dominating ladies who are used to being in control - and in coaxing ladies who are always "all about you" to lead me through some of their secret fantasies.
Thanks. Never really left just laid low for a while
I'd say I am much more confident and aware... My first few sessions were kind of a blur... but they have always had a degree of give and take as we share some intimate time together... more as two equals learning, exploring, and pleasuring each other.
What was the question again?
and am thinking I need to get some of that back as some of my recent experiences haven't been as satisfying as I'd like and there's no one to blame but myself.
I know you didn't ask but just throwing my two cents in. As a provider, I appreciate a gentleman who is open about what he likes or desires that evening. If the gentleman wants to be in control, it helps if he tells me since I will otherwise tend to take control. My desire is to make it a great experience, no matter what, for my client….so, I would simply say, don't expect me to read your mind, please.