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Re:To tip or not to tip, that is the first question.

posted 21 years ago

Hi everyone,
This question is one of the things that gets under my skin so to speak.
My girls are not allowed to ever ask for a tip. If they ever do I want to notified immediately. That is just tacky in my opinion.
On the other hand you would not believe the ammount of guys who expect everything under the sun for a half hour session at 125.00.( multiple pops,bbbjtc,greek, russian, asain and every position under the sun, and extra time to shower after the appointment, making the girl run late.) And then they NEVER even tip the girl $5.00.
There are even quite a few guys who only have big bills (no fives) give the girl 130.00 and ask for the change!

I have been doing research on this and the conclusion I have come to is that 85% of clients do not tip. reguardless of service. The clients that do tip however are extreamly generous, sometimes tiipping as much as 50%.

I agree that some girls should not be tipped as their service is not always up to par, but when you see a girl like Shannon for example who has excellent reviews, and goes above and beyond the call of duty, she should get at least a $5.00 tip.

This is just how I feel. I know that alot of my clients are on a very tight budget. That is why I like to keep our prices affordable, but by tipping $5.00 for a girl like Shannon you are still paying alot less than if you went to another service.

Just my .02

Jill

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wiseoldfool21 years ago8632 reads

To tip or not to tip, that is the first question.

1.) I've noticed in the reviews of some on this board that there is no significant correlation between tipping and the quality of the service provided. As an old newbie of modest means, what guidlines do you recommend, my fellow hobbyists? Provider's, what do you think is appropriate and does it have anything to do with what a providers time costs?

2.) A provider I visited recently, who was physically stunning and toned, practically hit me with the door on my way out for not tipping after she had discussed, for most of the hour, the importance of tipping and what normal service was limited to, in the absence of additional payments. As mentioned, she was absolutely gorgeous, but closer to a vindictive ex-wife than a girlfriend. Her provider physical skills were technically very good. The problem was that she was all about herself and constantly lobbying for more money. I'm sure the provider thought her service was good but she was suffiently indifferent and unintentionally disrespectful that she was a real turn-off. Both providers and hobbyists are human beings and therefore deserving of respect. Any comments or opinions? Am I out of line here?

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CORKY21 years ago10275 reads

Re:To tip or not to tip, that is the first question.

Call it tips or whatever you want but full service from a provider that is young, in good shape and very good looking should not exceed $300 for an hour of fun. Frankly, there are enough quality providers who would be happy with 200-250. You can even opt for more mature or BBW type providers if thats your pleasure for even less than 200. Some will attempt to take as much as they can from you but my experience tells me that you won't walk away any more satisfied if you pay more. Just always remember to treat any provider with respect and kindness but don't let them take advantage of you.

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RazorBoy21 years ago8673 reads

No, you're not out of line...

She, like some waitstaff, constantly complain and focus on the poor tips. Both types are in the wrong business.

She should raise her rates to her expectations but then she'd probably complain that business is slow. Attitude is everything and her's is poor.

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crystalforfun21 years ago8771 reads

Re:To tip or not to tip, that is the first question.

A tip is a money given voluntarily or beyond obligation for a service. It is as simple as that the key words are voluntarily and beyond obligation. So basically you want to tip you tip you don't you don't. The level of service should be the same regardless.

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dc521 years ago8163 reads

Re:To tip or not to tip, that is the first question.

I usually feel that anyone who asks for a tip doesn't deserve one. I'm also a bit reluctant to tip someone who is high priced to begin with. On the other hand, I think a gentleman who recieves exceptional service would want to tip 10 to 30%. There are providers who provide mediocre service at $300 +, and I don't think they deserve a tip. There are also providers who give spectular service at $200 or even less per hour, and the hobbiest who fails to tip is a cad. Use your judgment and you will probably not go wrong.

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angelann21 years ago9473 reads

Both of these guys are right

If you feel like tipping a provider for her service then tip. But I my self never expect or push for a tip,or Reviews for that matter.I'm just really happy to see you and to get the work.Also any provider that does push a client for a tip is not a class act in my book.

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Drago197121 years ago8799 reads

You should probably let us know what provider it was.

It would be good to know what provider it was so that no one else has an unpleasant experience with her. Some people just take for granted that money grows on trees. For me, seeing a provider is a rare luxury that I can only do sparingly. I've had unpleasant experiences along with the good ones too. When it' a bad one though I always feel like I wasted my money.

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wiseoldfool21 years ago9236 reads

Re:You should probably let us know what provider it was.

At one level I agree with you, Drago, but I explained what had happened primarily to shed light on the topic of fairness regarding tipping. Personaly I would be potentially damaging a providers livelihood which I think is inappropriate in this situation. If I had the same experience in college (back when ice covered North America) I would have probably considered the experience awesome. I was considering writing a review but even that is now inappropriate because it could be tied to the comments here on the board. Also, as a former union guy, I know that most people have a bad day once in a while. So noone should be judged too harshly for one bad day. If the behavior is typical for the provider in question, then other hobbyists will indicate that in their reviews. And truthfully, if she only serves guileless college boys as I used to be, she may get outstanding positive reviews and be providing them with a service that is valued and appreciated. Perhaps masochists might also appreciate such a provider. So your point is well taken, but my respect for the rights and dignity for providers will keep this newbies lips sealed.

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HB49521 years ago8535 reads

Re:You should probably let us know what provider it was.

It is hard to get a clear idea from either your original post or this one what was really going on. It sounds like she might have been up-selling you, a real no-no for any reputable provider and far beyond the realm of "a bad day" or YMMV. If that is the case, you shouldn't be so reluctant to be more forthcoming. On the other hand, if I misinterpreted what I took to be upselling, then your deference to her reputation is appropriate, and commendable. One provider springs to my mind when you give us your account of your time with escort X, Stacey/Asia/Miranda. Was it her, by any chance? If so then all I can say is that you probably gave a very restrained and charitable description of your experience with her. When you used the phrase "all about herself" I immediately thought of my wasted few hours with (then) Stacey a few years ago. Very beautiful, but not much fun! I think she's on a rip-off list somewhere, under one of her ever changing names.