What part of the country are you in?
I love to give and receive FBSM.
As I've aged (now 66), I find that a wonderful FBSM is a delightful way to spend an hour. However, finding the right kind of provider and the right kind of massage is a bit of a challenge. Too often, even for a sixty minute timeframe, the provider "thinks" they have to do a deep muscle massage as perhaps a cover for the happy ending. I have found a few over my career that focus on the sensual part, which includes stimulation over the entire body allowing for a slow build up, plenty of teasing, and a very slow release. It's a wonderful experience and I wish there were more ladies that learned these techniques. Anyone have a reaction or comments?
followed by the tease and the final piece de resistance, but there are many, many variations on this theme.
I once met a gal who started with a quick release "to relax me", then went into a deep tissue massge, and then finished up with the teasing and a second release. She even tossed in a ten minute cool down after that using reiki techniques. She was quite a gal. This was many years ago before the internet era.
I'm sure that if you talk to the gal beforehand and tell her what your wants are, she will accomodate you if she's on her game.
You might also want to see tantrikas as they are good at the kind of experience you are describing.
What part of the country are you in?
I love to give and receive FBSM.
Always looking for new adventures.
I am in the same age range and find that my favorite massage is a 50/50. Where the first half of the hour is spent giving the young lady a massage. I had an ATF in Phoenix who didn't give a very good deep tissue massage but should certainly had a great finish. And she seemed to enjoy the first half as much as I did. After our first 50/50 session she understood that I would massage her within the boundaries that we established and that she could relax and just enjoy it.
I hope I can find a similar situation in Colorado when I move there in April