I'm 40, and have been perfoming oral for over 27 years and I NEVER got (or gave) anything from it. Of course, you need to inspect your partner (male or female) before any action. If you see or feel like something is not right, don't do it. Trust your senses.

hello mw   I have heard mostly bad things about you thru that same person .   So now I am skiddish with both of you.  I prefer to drop the tacky jealous nonesense and try and be helpful on this board.

Enjoy your hobby,
candie

there are few ways men likes to orgasm right? Some like to do only inside a woman in doggie or missionary, some like over a woman's butt doing doggie, some like between big tits doing russian and, lots, likes to finish doing a facial, a combination of facial/mouth or the bbbj in all variations (DP, TC, NQNS, SB, SBAS to name few). The men who prefer to end with bjs, usually don't have a feel for intercourse with condoms. Is a covered bj good? Nope. Amazes me to read guys saying that they had a fantastic covered BJ, because there is no way that it can even be compared with having your dick worshipped by a hot, warm and soft mouth & tongue. The bbbj, if is done the way is suppose to be, gives much more pleasure than having intercourse and the "to completion" is the total experience. Some guys do not care if the woman spits or swallows, but for most the "no quit no spit" is the cherry on the top. Is the "acceptance" of his semen, it's something the gives them that ancient animal feeling that his seed has not been wasted.