Being the cliche' master that I am, I thought this little phrase does apply to this situation.
I have tried to avoid all the drama associated with who thinks who did what to whom. suffice to say I voted with my feet and am here now to enjoy the comraderie of fellow posters who feel/felt the same as I.
The conclusion is: if you feel comfortable with posting on TBD; then post there, if not than don't post there.
IMHO, I say enough is enough, as bad as it was put the past in the past and create a bright new future for yourselves.