Tour.
Or you could make appointments outside of Alaska. You could tour the East Coast, I heard Philly is a nice place. Maybe two weeks out of town would keep your secret and get you looking forward to it again.
Maybe go down to LA and visit for 2 weeks and see if you can get a few appointments.
TET
About 3yrs ago I retired from being a provider. I moved to Alaska and started a new life, none of my friends have any idea what I used to do when I lived in Los Angeles. My life now is very normal(boring) and it seems I have lost my sex drive. When I was a provider I was independant and looked forward to seeing my clients. I always liked being with different men, it was always new and exciting. Now I'm so bored with sex, I long for the good ol' days when I was working. Am I the only one? Any help would be appriciated. Thankx
Please oh please oh please consider coming out of retirement. Sonja is awesome but if she's busy or out of town it can be mighty dreary up there!
I'd get caught if I tried to sneak around.
Hell ya! go back to work, I'm sure Alaska could use a good new Lady.
Tour.
Or you could make appointments outside of Alaska. You could tour the East Coast, I heard Philly is a nice place. Maybe two weeks out of town would keep your secret and get you looking forward to it again.
Maybe go down to LA and visit for 2 weeks and see if you can get a few appointments.
TET
Zoe, welcome to the World of "Strange" - {"getting some strange" is the term}
There's few things in life as exciting as walking into a room and meeting and having sex with an attractive stranger ---
You may like filet mignon, but to eat it night after night, week in and week out . . . . .
"You may like filet mignon, but to eat it night after night, week in and week out"
Oh, amen. There's a reason why some of us, myself included, are just not cut out for monogamy. I have nothing against *emotional* monogamy, mind you - I can easily imagine myself being emotionally and romantically faithful to one person.
But *physically*? It's just never going to happen. I can't ever promise anyone that they're the only person I'll ever have sex with for the rest of my life. That's just not natural! I'm blessed (or maybe that's 'cursed') with an unusually high sex drive, and a myriad of sexual interests. Expecting to get everything I need, forever, from just one partner is ridiculous.
Zoe, if you don't want to work again, maybe you could look into exploring alternative lifestyles in your area. Perhaps swinging, or just a discrete affair. Alternately, maybe you could contemplate the idea that you're more cut out for polyamory. Either way, there's nothing wrong with you for missing the frisson of excitement that comes from working. It's addictive, trust me.
Morgan
Unless you need the cash otherwise take Morgan's advice and explore your boredom with trying different things with different people. In that way, if you want to bak to boring, you won't have the "strings" that living the life comes with.