I'm over 60 and one of my joys in life is having a cute 20 something under me grinding her pussy on my dick. A couple of girls I frequent actually seem like they enjoy the sex and my company. I'm no fool but I was wondering if anyone has ever had contact with a provider outside the bedroom?
only happened to me a few times over the years.
we pretended that we were former co-workers and discussed family stuff. the chats weren't much longer than 5 minutes tops because they were there with other folks.
not too surprising, most of my "run-ins" with the ladies have been in large shopping malls.
beyond that, everything else is business.
I have a few clients who enjoy meeting for dinner, drinks or even shopping in public. It is wonderful to build a close friendship with gentlemen whose company you have enjoyed in private. Most girls are open to this and enjoy such times. Most will expect, however, to be paid their normal rate since companionship is what escorts are paid for and it shows that you respect and value their time. Some girls, however, are content with a nice dinner out….
I am also around 60, I enjoy close relationships with a few current and/or former providers, and I chat, text, and talk with them regularly. I have "dated" and even enjoyed off the clock sex with a few, and I have combined social outings, especially sporting events, with BCD time with quite a few. I think one key is that I have been a good customer first, and built a friendship over several visits. Another key is that I have never demonstrated any jealousy, and have always tried to help them with their business in any way possible.
If you see a provider regularly and you feel like you have a good relationship and you enjoy each other's company, don't let your age be a barrier. There are numerous legitimate friendships between providers and hobbyists, and providers are probably more receptive than civvies to social relationships with older men. I mean, they have already gotten over the hard part, right? If they can manage to convince you that they enjoy sex with you, going for a nice dinner or a special event should be the easy part.
I will just add that I am not advocating stalking or pushing boundaries with respect to BCD time. If a woman likes you it should be obvious through her behavior. If you ask her to dinner after a session and she tells you she doesn't see clients off the clock, let it go and move on. As a direct answer to your question, though, yes, it does happen, and it even happens with older guys.
Oh yeah, one more thing... I have NEVER paid for social time.