yes

and don't let it happen again.....

Did she show you a photo ID such as a driver's license with her real name or did she refuse?

Alot of providers don't use their real names for a variety of reasons. Some to hide what they do from family and friends, who they don't want them to know what they do. Some to keep guys from trying to track them down and showing up on their door steps.  Ever heard the word "STALKER". So, yes by most of the providers standards you were out of place.

I've never been asked, however it may have been that she did not want you to see her address....you know, the whole stalking thing? Just a guess.

If you had already gone through a screening process, then she should have either felt comfotable being there or she shouldn't have been there. No good reason for her asking to see your ID. Since she probably had your phone number already, the only thing she could gain from looking at your ID is your home address, this is crossing the line. Since she decided that she needed to know everything about YOUR life, asking to see her ID only seems fair to me. Just to show her that everyone wants some privacy.

Normally asking to see the ladies ID is a bad idea and I doubt you would have done it. You were dealing with a strange lady or soemthing weird was going on. The ladies have plenty of problems with their privacy already and don't need to compromise it further.

However, your story does go to show that sometimes the only way of showing how silly someone is being is to go to the opposite extreme. My own personal question is, was she any good?

Sometimes an escort will ask a client to show his drivers license to "prove" he is not LE.  This is on the assumption that a police officer would never show his drivers license to an escort because then she would know his real name.  Well girls, if you believe this, you're only fooling yourselves.  An undercover police officer (be he vice, narcotics, whatever) will have several drivers licenses in different names (other than his own) from more than one state.  And these licenses will be "real," i.e., actually issued from the respective states DMV, not counterfeit.  Asking to see a drivers license is not any more affective at screening out LE than asking: "are you a cop?"