I am not sending pm's about a mixer as I never have used the term Mixer, I do use: m&g's or cocktail parties though. I do not run my parties via pm. I'd be interested in knowing who is feeding this nonsense to you.
That's my post also btw and I don't have to give anyone a reason why I used a different handle. However, with that being said, I wish you the best and am sure you running the parties will be a success!
ps:You dear must have high blood pressure. If not, your gonna get it soon, you need to chill out Vadhaman! winks!