Yes there is a stigma with black gentleman..........but, it is nothing of what any of you men think that it is!!!!!!!
Out of all of the gentlemen that I have seen over the years I will tell you that black gentlemen and Hispanic gentlemen have tended to fall in the category that I like to call "over bearing and controlling"......for a provider this sends up fear flags as we have come to feel safe by being more in control. Don't get me wrong..........all of you have a category!!!!!!!! My best advice to you, my friend, is just this.............say that you are an educated, polite black gentleman (and, for the record this goes out to all of you men)!!!!!!!!!! Anytime a man approaches me that way he gets off on a good footing because when you say it I might just believe it! Let me tell you why I might believe it..............Because whether you know it or not, many men are just rude when they contact us. 70% of all men that contact us are just flat rude which is why most girls prefer email first..........we weed your stupid out in the first sentence (which is why text is a bad idea!!) We know in our minds that you are probably just short of time and excited but if we have so much as 2minutes to think about it we will find the rude/dog in you.
Black or white or any color or any race,,,,,,,,,,,,be a gentleman. Allow us to be the one eating our words when we see you and take your money and have a great time to be the fools in our own mind. Allow yourself the space to humble us and not forget your name when we are asked for a reference on you...............trust me when I say that we do!!!!!!!!!! Happy Holidays my friend!!!!!!!!!!!! X's Summer of the Chicken Ranch
Whether it's due to personal preference or a stigma of black guys, girls in SoCal that take black clients seem to be few and far between. I tend to stick to BP for my searches and out of 10 ads, you'll have 4-6 that flat out say no black men. Then there'll be another one or two that when you call/text/email them will either say no or not respond, which is the same as no. I'm willing to continue to search and ask the providers that I find myself with an interest in, however help would be greatly appreciated. If anyone knows of any providers in Orange County/Long Beach/L.A. that are accepting of black clients, your input would be so welcomed!
Between personal preference of Stigma
The reason is unknown for sure, but, you are right it is definitely there.
You could debate for days on the subject as to which it is or why though.
Good Luck in your search Sir
@Benson.Payne man you can do a novel on reviews !!
So tell me, is that a good or bad thing?? lol
It' could be good or not ..
In the long run you get what you pay for ..
I'm still relatively new to the hobby, as I didn't start seeing providers until after I moved out to Anaheim last year, with my first "experience" coming in May of this year. But what I've noticed is back in Atlanta, where I'm originally from, it's NOTHING like out here, at least you don't see as many that flat out reject us. But maybe it's because Atlanta is so heavily populated by black people like a chick goes into it like "chances are if I wanna get any business, I'm gonna have to..." I don't know. But yeah it sucks.
Ray Rice, Greg Hardy, Adrian Peterson, Larry Johnson, Brandon Marshall, James Harrison, and Chad Johnson haven't done anything for the African American cause.
All of them are AA, are(or were) NFL players, and all have run a-foul with domestic violence /child abuse laws.
I wonder if 'performance enhancing drugs' have anything to do with this trend
I've seen a few in this business and dated a few in my personal life. I find them to be pretty much like ordinary people. Naturally, the ones that are jerks get so much attention they ruin it for the ordinary/good guy. But if you figure the sheer number of ball players over all that don't get into trouble compared to the few that do, it's not a fair analogy. The majority of the ones I know personally are actively involved in charities and take good care of their families but they get next to zero attention. Most like it like that. But cringe at the asshats who denigrate their entire group of players.
My question is - why is it when people like Rice are busted they find Jesus and somehow think we should all forget their prior behavior? As if past behavior weren't an indicator of future behavior? SMH.
I see good people (in this business). Regardless of color. There may be fewer of us providers out here on the West Coast (who do) but like anything worth having, we're probably worth seeking out.
yws, I do see all sorts of races including blacks.
I love varieties.
Please feel free to view my profile and reviews.
Lick Lick,
Ashley
http://ashleyshye.gfefiles.com/home
& I LOVE black men, If your scared go to church!! Lol. Race is not a factor for me. I prefer my clients to be gentlemen, have exceptional hygiene, be verifiable, and of course love breasts! I will be visiting in about a week, and I can't wait!
Hugs & Kisses,
Allison 48J
Maybe you should jump in front of a speeding 18 wheeler
Yup. I laughed!
Yes there is a stigma with black gentleman..........but, it is nothing of what any of you men think that it is!!!!!!!
Out of all of the gentlemen that I have seen over the years I will tell you that black gentlemen and Hispanic gentlemen have tended to fall in the category that I like to call "over bearing and controlling"......for a provider this sends up fear flags as we have come to feel safe by being more in control.
Don't get me wrong..........all of you have a category!!!!!!!!
My best advice to you, my friend, is just this.............say that you are an educated, polite black gentleman (and, for the record this goes out to all of you men)!!!!!!!!!! Anytime a man approaches me that way he gets off on a good footing because when you say it I might just believe it!
Let me tell you why I might believe it..............Because whether you know it or not, many men are just rude when they contact us. 70% of all men that contact us are just flat rude which is why most girls prefer email first..........we weed your stupid out in the first sentence (which is why text is a bad idea!!) We know in our minds that you are probably just short of time and excited but if we have so much as 2minutes to think about it we will find the rude/dog in you.
Black or white or any color or any race,,,,,,,,,,,,be a gentleman. Allow us to be the one eating our words when we see you and take your money and have a great time to be the fools in our own mind. Allow yourself the space to humble us and not forget your name when we are asked for a reference on you...............trust me when I say that we do!!!!!!!!!!
Happy Holidays my friend!!!!!!!!!!!!
X's Summer of the Chicken Ranch