I can't schedule anything for someone who doesn't know when they want their appointment. I get incredibly frustrated with statements like "oh, anytime is fine" or "sometime Wednesday". Those emails end up getting the big fat DELETED.
I have no idea how these gentlemen schedule the rest of their lives, do they call for dinner reservations and expect the restaurant to tell them when to come?
Dumb question or could this be a LE setup?
Emailed fairly new Provider with a few reviews and she replies, this went on a few times but she sort of pushes to know for sure if I am coming and more to the point what TIME I will be there.
Sort of makes me feel I am being set up by LE for a fall.
Your opinion please, both from Hobbyist and Providers.
Sounds suspiciously like maybe she wants to be sure of schedule if you ask me. I know on my pre screening form I ask for when and for how long of a time is requested. I do not schedule anything untill after I have verified information on my pre screening form but by knowing the when it helps so that if there is a pre exhisting confilct I can let the client know immediatly. On occasion I have had a hobbiest send in pre screening for so as to allow me to do the verifications prior to the actual time he would be in town thus allowing for shorter lead time when actualy setting the appointment. You must remember we ladies not only have other clients but full lives outside of the hobby thus knowing the when and how long is rather helpful at as early a time as possible.
I refuse to set up anything or give my location until I have a time and date set up. I have a life and many other clients who fill up my time. I never have any intention other then I don't want a conflict, I don't like surprises and I need to have my schedule set up for the day before my day begins.
not giving her a time and date is just rude and uncaring of her situation. If you give a date with no time, she cannot schedule anything around your appointment, and may not have the time you want. Which not only puts her in a bad situation it makes your time almost impossible, causing you to write a bad review...See how this cirlce goes?
Best wishes and Happy Hobbying!
XOXOX
Trinity
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Just that all by itself wouldn't be a problem for me, but I must admit that I'm a bit time and schedule driven myself. I very much appreciate a provider whose communications indicate a respect for schedule - both hers and mine. IMHO, there is somethng balanced and reliable about a person who is organized. For me, it suggests that it is more likely she'll be on time and won't be overscheduled so we'll actually have the duration I booked.
I can't schedule anything for someone who doesn't know when they want their appointment. I get incredibly frustrated with statements like "oh, anytime is fine" or "sometime Wednesday". Those emails end up getting the big fat DELETED.
I have no idea how these gentlemen schedule the rest of their lives, do they call for dinner reservations and expect the restaurant to tell them when to come?
I am the kind who likes to schedule ahead, sometimes way ahead according to some providers.
Because of my busy schedule, I like to schedule dates ahead, like two to three weeks in advance. Once I had a provider who told me that three weeks in advance was too far ahead. She said that she wouldn't plan in advance but asked me if I wanted to see her the next day, she's available. I gave her a specific date but no time, presumably we could work out the time if the date was fine with her. But I was surprised to get that kind of response. The response should have been either Yes, it's ok or No,it's not.
Can someone explain what possibly might cause her to say that?
Sounds to me she just wants to stop wasting time and get to the point. Are you going to see her or not? If so great she be more then happy to exchange e-mails with you. If not then what are you doing e-mailing her, taking up her time. I am sure you are a nice guy and all, but yes even sifting through the 100 spam e-mail we get to enlarge our penises and solicitors, then not to mention the 40 e-mail we get that all they say is “Hey, Let’s Fuck” or “let’s get together” with absolutely no information are 100% deleted by me, I don’t even respond with a “What?”. It is all time consuming and if you are just looking for an e-mail companion try match.com. So the fact that she even responded to your first e-mail (that did not have a time in mind) was more class, then you never even intended on setting up an appointment.
And it wasn't a penis enlarger, it was a vaginal enlarger... and I wasn't trying to sell it to you, I was going to let you use it. I can't very well sell it to you since it's attached to me.
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I think most of you missed the point here, put it another way, she pushes to set a time and date and when you call to confirm it she is busy and says call back in an hour.
Ok so I get the feeling she is a clock watcher and not truly offering GFE.
Very few of us want to feel rushed and for the money we don't need the hurry up and get off attitude.
That is how she appears to come off and I am sure as a Provider she might not see herself that way but as a Hobbyist I do compared to others I have visited.
Will I see her, depends as her reviews are very few but ok, so if she stops the hurry up stuff yes I would like to visit her but if she puts me off that way a few times then No I will find another who truly desires a nice Hobbyist.
Lex I am not wasting her time or mine since she is the one that says Email me.
To all Providers as a matter of record not every Hobbyist can set a time and date, some of us do have other things to do also just like you do.
What makes things work good for all is being somewhat flexible with Hobbyist that are as busy as the Provider.
We all have private lives and I respect that in others.
Keep in mind I am not complaining nor trying to start any flaming here and that is one reason no name or location will ever be mentioned.
Perhaps others might see themselves here and change too.
You say that not every hobbyist can set a time and date.
If not, why bother calling more than once? Wait until you can set a time and date, and then call and set it.
Let this end it but on a good note.
Saw Provider today and had a wonderful time and will see her again.
...I was simply trying to sell Karrie my Vaginal Enlargement Tool™.
Mine happens to be on sale now. sorry Lex but mine is $$ cheaper and since it is all about the money, I'll get the business. Isn't capitalism great.