...little did I know that the sweet young thing who handed me that ring oh so many years ago had secretly forged it only days before in her hidden lair beneath the Mountain of Fire. Crafted with malice and cunning and bound by an oath, once donned it could not be removed, save by the death of the wearer or the severing of a finger.

Regardless of what a lady might consider appropriate, it simply will not come off.

Within an intimate context, it may be less an issue of etiquette than personal preference.  I generally feel that a married man's marriage is not my business.

That said, in a more public space - say, a restaurant - it might be more appropriate to put the ring away.  But then, I'm a fan of discretion.

Doesn't bother me, if you keep your ring on and I'm sure most providers feel the same way.

I doubt many have moral compulsions against bedding a man who's married...

Please, leave it on!
A-I prefer to know when I am seeing a married client.
B-What if it were misplaced while it was off? So utterly not worth that risk!

I don't mind if it is kept on

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Don't worry about the ring, just don't hide the wallet.

What's the big deal if it stays on anyway.  I mean he already knows as do most Providers he is married and lacking something at home.

Besides I would venture more then a few Hobbyist secretly pretend his Provider is the wife giving him what his real one does not.

I leave mine on and it does not bother me nor my Providers and never has one asked me to remove it.

We pay these sweet ladies NOT to care.

If it makes YOU feel better then take it off.

Personaly it matters not to me as I am well aware that a large percentage of the gentlemen I see are married. However that is a decision that should ultimatly be made by the hobbiest. In the event that he feels more comfortable without his ring on when with a lady I would recomend that he remove it prior to arriving for the session and place it somewhere safe such as in the console of his car etc. In that manner at least he can be sure it will not be missplaced when in the heat and/or afterglow of passion. Much easier to say oops I took it off when checking the oil on the car and left it in the ashtray rather than having to admit that one has lost it.

You may loose it if you take it off, then you will have some explainig to do.

But. Make sure that you wash and rinse your hands, especially the ringed one well. No need to give the wife a biological clue concerning what you have been up to.

wear it with pride

I like the fact that the man I am with found someone that they felt so deeply about that they wanted to get married. I feel honored to spend time with someone that feels emotions that deeply.

I wear 2 rings, an engagement ring and a wedding band. The engagement ring was a gift with no strings attached, and the wedding band was my grandmother's. They fit best on my left ring finger. They look pretty when I am giving head, and I like having something from my family close to me when I am working.

I have no boyfriend, no husband, but I am looking for someone, somewhere, when I am least expecting it. I had lost hope in LA, but perhaps I will find a frisky tumbleweed on route 66.

Wear the ring.