I read about so many providers that do bbbj and it makes me a little nervous (being a neewbie) about saftey. If anyone can shed some light on this subject, I'd appreciate it. I mean, I'd hate to deprive myself from a wonderful sensation but saftey is always my main concern.
Thanks!
Everyone has their own comfort level ... so stick with what's best for you and don't let us sway you ..... I perfer bbbj...
A CBJ is fine by me!!!
And don't forget the TCIMNQNS part too!!
If you search this forum and the newbie board you'll see this subject has been discussed multitudes of times. Do a google search on the subject and you can see the statistics first hand. Once you do that, make up your own mind, based on that, at what your comfort level is.
I don't think many providers who routinely provide BBBJ would be upset if you asked for a cover instead.
The skill of the provider is the most important factor. A BBBJ by someone that is inexperienced provides no more stimulation than a covered one by the same person. If you are concerned about getting a BBBJ, go with a well reviewed and highly rated provider whose profile says that she only does CBJs, there are plenty of them available.
We had been going at it hot and heavy and I had been down on her and she wanted to return the favor; but my request for a hat appeared to completely offend her, and she requested that we just move on the main event (and get things over with.)
I was surprised, figuring such an experienced, reputed and intelligent provider would be used to such a request. (I'm not experienced in this field.)
Well yeah, she was probably offended because you had already DATY! Once you do that, why go CBJ? Unless you saw a cold sore on her or you yourself have genital herpes. If that were the case, you didn't kiss her either right? I have heard from a few providers that they don't like the taste of condoms
There are plenty of reasons why bbbj is not as safe as daty. Gonhorrea and chlamidya of the throat are commonly seen in our clinic! Get it and pass it on!
Yes my spelling has always sucked! lol
I actually have a client who is a doctor, and he has told me that women should be very careful with bbbj's for those very reasons, you suggest. To the women out there, it's a good thing to get checked regularly, IF you are doing bbbj's. Also, you could be putting your clients at risk too, by kissing them and passing on the "gift". Then they will kiss another provider, and pass on the "gift". It's sad either way, when you think about it. I guess if we all were safety conscience, we all would just cover up mouth and down below. It's kind of half a$$ really to cover up on one part and not the other, but then again it's a half a$$ed world sometimes lol
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Are you saying that those 2 diseases cannot be spread via DATY?? I have heard(many times) that they can, so the risk would then be equal as I suggested. It is the risk to either party that I was referring to, not one party over the other.
... there are lots of posts on this subject (safety). Use the find feature and go back several months. Don't worry too much about the safety of the bbbj.