thank you...i will follow up with her.
thanks again.
Short and sweet:
A provider has offered me a very long time period to be with her. 6 hours to be exact, on my birthday! This is not a problem for me as she is one sexy blonde and I would love to spen 12 or more with her! The problem is I did not ask for this nor would I be able to afford a wonderful time like she offered.
I am freaking out here, and I need to get some help with the situation. Should I ask her what it would cost? Or What? I dont know if this is a once in a lifetime offer from her as we do get along extreamly well, I mean extreamly well!!!! And I would hate to damage that relation.
Thoughts?
It's probably a present. Ask her if it is just to be sure, let her respond if necessary say 6 hours is too rich for you blood or words to that effect and you'll have the usual. She's probably going to give you a deal. If you get along with her so well, you should be able to ask her what's up.
thank you...i will follow up with her.
thanks again.
I agree, if you get along so well just ask her. I think it's a great marketing tool for a lady to offer her very regular clients this type of deal on special occaisions such as birthdays I've been seeing the same lady for several years now and have not been offered anything off the clock. But then again, maybe she doesn't enjoy me as much as I enjoy her,lol.
It can be touchy when a provider offers something like that.
I have had appointments with one of my ATF's where she said "lets go get dinner first" or "Lets go to this spa I know where we can use a private jacuzzi".
Who buys dinner? Who pays at the spa? Both times it went without saying, and I paid. However it was more than I had been planning on spending that evening. Since then I have said "lets just stay in", but I never told her, as I should have "I'd love to do these extra things, but just can't afford it." You never know. Maybe she'd discount her rate.
But that's my story. Definitely you should tell her you'd love to see her for the extended time, but just can't afford it. She'll either say "ok" or tell you that she meant the extra time was on her (pun intended).
Yes, I would hate to get caught with my pants down...hehe
With your number of reviews and apparent hobbying experience versus mine. But all of the top shelf ladies that I have met always offered multi-hour discounts that grew larger as my time with them grew. If you have an ATF that does not do this for you when you do long bookings with her, then it is time to look for another ATF.
Tell her the truth, you'd love to take her up on her offer but at the time you can't afford to do so. Right after Christmas a lot of people are tapped out of fund's. She'll either tell you, if your lucky, that she wasn't intending to charge you, or maybe she'll give you a discounted appointment. I had a provider that I've seen a few time's in the past offer me an overnight visit for my birthday but even though she said it was discounted it sure wasn't by much. Bottom line, business is business and not too many are giving anything away for free, unless your lucky.
Ask her if she has a layaway plan. (eom)
Never posted on the general board, only my regional one. I have an ATF who now tells me to come over any time I want off the clock for nothing. Absolutely refuse to take her up on it since I truly believe that is crossing the line between provider and GF. Everyone uses the term GFE, but if any of us were truly looking for that, would we be doing it here. I think your ATF is truly being generous, but make sure it is just that, generosity and nothing more. Hate to be devils advocate here you know, but midnight calls and messages from providers can put a real damper on personal life if you know what I mean!
By that response it's safe to say your married. If you weren't, her being an ATF I'd be willing to bet you'd be all over that offer. I sure wish one of my ATF's would offer me such a deal.
Thanks to all for the advise.
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