Orange County

Re: UPDATE
SoCalDiver74 7 Reviews 554 reads
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Yeah, after this I will.  

Good advice!

I'm fairly new to the hobby, but I consider myself respectful, considerate, and fair.  Please critique an incident I had yesterday.

I posted a positive review lately of a pleasurable FBSM experience as I was still flying high from the session.  Worked all day an woke up this morning to several emails from the provider asking me to remove my review as it "was causing her problems".  The last email was basically the f-off and never contact me again, men are pigs, blah, blah...

I responded politely and informed the provider that I will do what I can to get the review removed, will never contact them again, and spread the word she hates reviews (even positive ones?!)

What did I do wrong?  I've submitted other reviews, never with this result.  I also was under the impression that positive reviews increase business; and detailed and fair reviews prep the clients for what to expect.

I've linked the provider so you can see the reviews.  I'm thoroughly confused and taking a break from the hobby until I get some feedback.  If I'm some kind of closet a-hole I'll adjust my attitude; but I honestly didn't see what did wrong.  Please critique!

UPDATE

The emails to my TER account from the provider continue.  Apparently she has a problem with very existence of this website where clients rate providers.  Far be it for a client that pays for a service gives a positive review of services received.

So, that explains it.  I don't take that personally.  

Filing in the crazy file.  Back to normal business.  :)

Wow! That's nutty.

I read your review and it was very favorable - many providers would love to get a review like that. She sounds like she has some major issues...none of which were your doing.  

What I usually do is ask the provider just before I leave whether or not she'd like a review on TER. That way no there are no nasty surprises later on!

Yeah, after this I will.  

Good advice!

Are her photos real?  That body is smoking!  Thanks!

Posted By: SoCalDiver74
Yeah, after this I will.    
   
 Good advice!

Yeah, they're real.  :)  She is hot.

I think it is a great idea, especially if the lady is not listed on a review site.

Personally I love reviews when written tastefully

Serena x

Chances are this girl doesn't want this much attention. It's understandable. The motivation for choosing this lifestyle is different for everyone. Some ladies love the attention and this is their primary source of income. Others are looking to make  few bucks to supplement something going on in their lives at this time. Perhaps she is involved in a custody case or trying to establish herself in her career. But whatever the motivation is she clearly doesn't want this much attention.  
Since those are her real pictures there's a good chance that someone who knows her in her personal life might recognize her. There's a better chance of that happening if her profile is raised and she is being talked about on the web.
I'm assuming she didn't ask you to NOT write a review because you seem like an upstanding gent and certainly wouldn't have written a review had she asked you not to.  
It's always good to ask to someone first just to be certain.
Very nice review, BTW

Yup, learned my lesson.  

Will ask in the future.  :)

Posted By: Angel4Kisses
Chances are this girl doesn't want this much attention. It's understandable. The motivation for choosing this lifestyle is different for everyone. Some ladies love the attention and this is their primary source of income. Others are looking to make  few bucks to supplement something going on in their lives at this time. Perhaps she is involved in a custody case or trying to establish herself in her career. But whatever the motivation is she clearly doesn't want this much attention.  
 Since those are her real pictures there's a good chance that someone who knows her in her personal life might recognize her. There's a better chance of that happening if her profile is raised and she is being talked about on the web.  
 I'm assuming she didn't ask you to NOT write a review because you seem like an upstanding gent and certainly wouldn't have written a review had she asked you not to.  
 It's always good to ask to someone first just to be certain.  
 Very nice review, BTW.  
 

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