You're kidding, right? I'm average-sized, but even those so-called "magnum" condoms are so goddamned tight it feels I'll never be able to get the damned things off.
Hi I am new to the hobby. Just had a wonderful time with my first appointment. I have a question regarding rubber use, since I know this will eventually happen. Who is at risk more if the condom slips off during withdrawal (after ejaculation)? It happened to me in high school with my girlfriend cus I fell asleep inside her. With a provider, I want to be more careful just in case. Any insights on this? Should the provider be more concerned than I am if it were to happen?
You're kidding, right? I'm average-sized, but even those so-called "magnum" condoms are so goddamned tight it feels I'll never be able to get the damned things off.
maybe cus when the penis is soft and the rubber is slippery inside, it is likely to slip out. Thats why people say do not fall asleep while inside the girl. I think the recommended way to withdraw is to hold rubber by base. Doesn't matter the size.... slippage happens.
First of all, you should post on the Newbie board,as you may feel more comfortable, and you will find a wealth of information there. Both parties are at risk if a condom slips off during withdrawal, but having the condom rupture is much more dangerous.
That being said, I doubt that you will ever fall asleep with a provider. If you do, you have wasted your money and your review probably won't be worth reading. Lol. All kidding aside, providers are professionals, and in all liklihood they would never allow that situation to arise. If you are concerned, simply put two fingers around the rim of the condom before you withdraw. Best of luck to you, and welcome to the club!
Ever heard of overnighters? It's a very real possibility to fall asleep with a provider. I don't care who you are, it's rare on an extended date (like on overnight) for both parties to go at it all night. Falling asleep together is part of the package.
If you allow yourself to become soft while the condom is still on, you're making it that much more likely that the condom will slip off. Your best bet is after you've calmed yourself down, hold the condom firmly around the base of your cock and pull out carefully. I believe condoms FALL off a lot more often than they BREAK, so this is something everyone should be aware of!
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Tamara
As you stated, the next best tactic to insuring that the condom is on properly is to hold it at the base during withdrawal.
the provider is performing the disengagement.
first off I'd like to say that SexyCurves is so hot!! OW!!
Second, slippage happened to me once with a provider. She CG me till climax, and then basically started to chat with me for several minutes. By the time she got off of me, my penis was already soft. She got off of me and took the rubber with her (inside of her). Man, I was a little concerned, but I realized that there was no exposure on my end because she simply "removed" the rubber with another part of her anatomy, never touched my bare skin.
This has never happened to me - yet. However, just to be sure, I always have a small staple gun handy and encourage clients to use it.
POW!!!! Emma strikes again
Oh yes Emma! You are so perspicacious! I prefer a Bostiche model 97. The staples are very small, and you hardly bleed at all after you remove them. A small price to pay, don't ya think! Lol.
Thanks for that visual. I just had flashbacks to the movie "Something About Mary". What was the line....yes, "we have a bleeder".
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Cheers!...and why am I laughing.
i know that I should try to prevent slippage. But my question is, if withdrawal slippage does occur, who is more at risk of exposure, man or woman? Does it matter if withdrawal slippage occurs when woman if on top or bottom? anyone know?
It's nimrods like you that have one of my favorite providers conditioned to grab the base of my cock at the first sign I came. She's finally getting comfortable with the idea that I will actually take responsibility for grabbing the base of the condom when I withdraw; which, by the way, ought to be sometime before you start going soft and not after a nap. I have to assume the provider is more at risk, especially if the condom gets completely inside her. Your risk would be when she decides to smack you up the side of your head. In your case, I think Emma's approach should be mandatory.
as some have pointed out a cock ring might help of course i sort of like the vibrating ones myself
oh my