Depends on who I am seeing.

Some girls it's all about the wild sex.

Some girls it's about the snuggle and cuddle time.

Some girls it's all about the mental play.

Every now and then you find one that has them all wrapped together.

I like to repeat, so for me it is more of a journey. In turn that makes the intimacy so much better! Great sex is just a bonus.

C. The overall experience.  Once I find a provider that I like I will repeat often to establish a rapport and then the sex is dynamite!

details of private lives, etc.  In fact in most cases, it is probably not a good thing, though on occasion it is appropriate.

I rank attitude as the most important qualification.  With the right attitude, the sex is great, and the overall experience is great too.

B. the intimacy of the session.

The connectedness that you feel through the sex is what I enjoy most.

Who are we kidding? We're doing p4p for the sex. But age and maturity have taught me that the best sex is a consequence of beautiful intimacy with a woman whom I feel a connection to. When I'm engaged by her personality, the desire is even greater than a stunning body. Then a slow journey of feeling increased desire on the part if my companion can bring me to warm intimacy and a memorable conclusion.
It's not a, b, or c. It's d - all of the above!

intimacy = great experience.

...can define the experience. If it's totally mechanical, sure you can achieve what you desire, however great chemistry, and it's related intimacy can elevate all. Time is an important factor for those that see a reg. provider. The one hitters rarely feel that level in my opinion. It always comes down to the individuals.

C. overall experience

I  am completely into a mutual comfort level, however our overall experience matters most to me.
My sensuality is heightened by feeling your sexual energy.  
I enjoy  every encounter , making each of our moments more memorable than the last.
When he wants me ... Really wants me. It makes me  so hot. He can tell as my body is very receptive to touch .
Intimacy is just as important. Although I  have a more carnal instinct in my quest for the highest  level of sexual ecstasy. A divine experience.
(60+) lovers are more in tuned to  sexual energy my body exudes.
I  enjoy the attention to detail my 60+ lovers give me. I, in turn, give  all of me.
I love the act of sex, more important to me is your overall experience ;this I believe is what keeps em coming back   for more . Sexual recall ...hmmm
I want to be that de ja vous moment , in the middle of the day when you say to yourself " Now that was some good Lovin"  
I love to be desired and I think it shows

All of the above.

D.  Having the opportunity of exploring another unique
creation of Mother Nature.

I enjoy experiencing the wide variety in shape, size, and color
of breasts and nipples.

Should a lady have suckable labia and clit,
I am in Explorer's Heaven.

Signed,
I Do Not Wear My Pith Helmet While Exploring