I ALWAYS pay cash when I am engaged in The Hobby. But still, hotels always ask for ID and a credit card. The credit card I can understand - room service charges, phone, etc. But not sure why they need ID, home address, etc. After all, I can drop 2K at a restraunt using a credit card and no id .. can't imagine a one night hotel bill in chicago getting anywhere near that.
Occasionally, I will book a hotel in order to meet with a woman. The hotels I go to (I do prefer nicer hotels so maybe that is an issue) in the Loop area always want a credit card and drivers license, which I provide.
I have always been a little nervous that - despite my instructions to the contrary -- a hotel might mail an invoice or "satisfaction survey" to my address which would not be good; very hard to explain THAT.
Any recommendations for hotels that may not care about having a valid address? What do others do?
I've stayed in plenty of hotels all over the USA and I have never had anything mailed to my address.
Hotels simply don't send you anything, unlike just about every other business in the world.
Relax, the only way you'll ever get anything from a hotel is if you fill out an in-room guest survey, and then, only if its negative or you had a major complaint.
But hey, maybe I should suggest they just might....so you better come stay with me at my hotel wink wink I'll keep you safe! I need some hot action on Thursday----where are the guys this week?
A sexually repressed Sophia XOXOX (I need some release!) Anyone wanna liven up my Thursday or Friday?
Ahhh Sophia. You look ravishing.. I have dates already this week and next but you are on my to do list! Don't know how I missed you with those reviews.
Anyway, I travel a lot for my job. I have (twice) had a hotel mail me something - once an invoice, and another time a sock I left. Fortunately, those were legitimate business trips but it does kind of kill the outcall for me at least while I am in my home turf. It is too bad, there are some great well-reviewed providers without an incall location...
Two months ago I got a call at home from a hotel I spent one night at almost 4 years ago. They wanted to offer me a special package offer and mentioned that I had stayed there once before. I mean 4 years ago I stayed there and they call me now? Always give a bogus phone number when you book the room, and tell them the billing address for your credit card just changed because you just purchased a new home.... its the ploy I always use.
I could use some help here also. The issues you mention have kept me from doing an outcall. Do guys pay cash to avoid any trail on a credit card bill? Can you pay in advance, so you just leave when you're done?
I ALWAYS pay cash when I am engaged in The Hobby. But still, hotels always ask for ID and a credit card. The credit card I can understand - room service charges, phone, etc. But not sure why they need ID, home address, etc. After all, I can drop 2K at a restraunt using a credit card and no id .. can't imagine a one night hotel bill in chicago getting anywhere near that.
Cash.... I have more problems when I try to pay with cash than when I use a credit card. One place required a $25 deposit on top of the room charge if I was going to pay cash, so I used my debit card instead. Of course, I don't mind if I get mail from a motel/hotel as I live alone. I can understand the mens' concerns. Occasionally, I will book the room and the client will add that onto my "gift." That way the room isn't in his name ... just my $.02 (or has inflation increased that amount?).
You can't trash the restaurant and walk out undetected. Blame the paranoia of the hotel to college students and other young adults who book rooms to party in, get stoned and trash the hell out of them. It happens quite often and the hotel wants to be able to track the s.o.b's down, or at least give LE a reliable suspect to hunt.
Get an address like to a UPS/Mail boxes etc. Get a credit card or debit card with that mailing address. When checking in to a hotel, use a cell phone number or your work number and use only that credit card. If its a business trip and you are using a busines credit card, change the address of the card to the vanity mailing address. Again, use only the cell phone number.
Use cash only for the hobby.
When all is said and done...don't run for political office. I would be a great senator. I wouldn't take Geri Ryan to a sex club, I would keep her to myself. But I have been to a few sex clubs. 
Happy Hunting!
I'm curious to know more about sex clubs - location, admission, can you go alone, etc.
I must admit, as many hotels that I have stayed at. That only a few times have I gotten anything in the "mail" and when it does, it comes to my work address.
Never been asked for an ID unless I don't want to use a credit card. Then they want the whole nine yards..
Now the credit card leads to another trail. Which is why I usually only take outcalls when I am traveling for work. Almost every lady that I see at home does incall. Safer that way..
Here is what the two of you should do:
Split an studio apartment & take your phone/power bills to get a state id card with that address on it(lol, but an idea). My guess that the hotel is asking you for a id along with a credit card is for there protection for that credit card could of had just been stolen.
I have had some great outcalls but you are really not missing much by going for an incall 'date'.
Good luck to both of you!
Get a PO box and have your hobby credit card bill go to the PO Box. ALong with your hotel vip mail. I can remember one time freaking about the mail, luckly I got the mail just in time, lol.