Well she's either trying to burn you or maybe she has the hots for you! Either way go get checked you never know now a days. Hopefully she has the Hots for you because that means your life just got 10xs better. LOL
Don't know if this is the place to pits this but can't sleep. Tonight I saw one of my ATF providers. When I showed up she didn't seem like herself maybe drunk anyway we started the fun and she was wilder then usual. She jumped on top of me cowgirl and started a private to private massage and she got off a couple of times. Next thing I know she reaches down and slides me in her and rides me till I came no cover. For round 2 I made sure we used a cover. After she told me I was special to her and kissed me goodbye...a couple of questions
1. Has this happened to anyone else ?
2. Am I over reacting not worried about pregnancy it's impossible ?
3. Any thoughts ?
Well she's either trying to burn you or maybe she has the hots for you! Either way go get checked you never know now a days. Hopefully she has the Hots for you because that means your life just got 10xs better. LOL
Of course it's possible. Did you not take sex ed?
Personally, I can't get pregnant. But 100% I don't go bare. EVER! Because STD's are not something I care to pick up.
If she is willing to go bare with you, she is willing to go bare with others. If it were me, I'd find a new ATF that respects her own health and yours.
1. Has this happened to anyone else ?
2. Am I over reacting not worried about pregnancy it's impossible ?
3. Any thoughts ?
Honestly I was on the brink and when she put me inside I came pretty much instantly it's no defense I know
Be safe and protect those that you might see in the future in the hobby. Look up the testing windows for the common STDs and get yourself checked out. With a brief exposure like you had it's unlikely you picked something up but definitely possible. Hobby smart, man.
+1! Hobby smart. Never been better said!
1. Has this happened to anyone else ?
2. Am I over reacting not worried about pregnancy it's impossible ?
3. Any thoughts ?
Too much nonsense here about std. Clean up after, have a good strong piss, and you'll be fine.
Herpes are contagious, covered or not. You're way more likely to get them from a bj than anything else.
Aids/hep very rare even in environments where care isn't taken. Unless you're ATF is a bruised up junkie, don't sweat it.
The rest go away with a shot.
Don't believe me? Search CDC statistics. Don't let a little thing like facts get in the way.
Don't be so dramatic.
Ever wonder why very few providers respond to these posts?
It is because most providers have provided this service to someone paying them at some point in their career. I have empirical evidence that over 75% of established TER providers (been providing more than two years) have in fact provided BBFS (while getting paid) at some point in their "career".
If you ask the question do you provide BBFS, the answer is 99% "NO" because in general the provider does not do this as part of her normal service.
However, if you ask the question have you ever offered/provided BBFS to a client, the answer is quite the opposite - about 80% "YES".
I suspect in large part this happens for many of the factual reasons Empathy pointed out above. While the potential results of some STD's are devastating, the risks of contracting an "untreatable" problem are incredibly low and decline even further within certain population/demographic groups.
I am not endorsing the behavior but the "politically correct" responses these threads generate are clearly not based on reality or facts and appear to be more self-serving/self righteous than helpful (eg, see Jenn's ridiculous response in this thread above)