We all know a huge part of why a lot of men want to play with us Girls is because they've fetishized the idea of a beautiful woman who looks like GG (I personally find all this deeply rooted in a lot of bullshit but I'm not opening that can of worms) and shoots a load out of a hard dick. The thing is do a lot of y'all hobbiest understand much about hormone replacement therapy and the affects of sperm production? The lowering of testosterone + estrogen gets the feminizing affects but Unfortunately little to no cum. So what's your preference? Or at least make take that into consideration when choosing a provider.
Note: there are lots of different ways TS women make their bodies feminine etc.
Thanks Sheena for an awesome topic. It's not often one can opine about such things. I appreciate this group for that opportunity. And although we have never met, by your photos I can say that you are the type of girl I would waste no time attempting to meet. Maybe one day......
Personally I have few preferences. It's rare to find any one girl who possesses all of these traits so the search becomes a quest. To me the whole "lobbying" endeavor is to fulfill a fantasy and when it comes to living breathing beings it's not realistic to have any one person fulfill every aspect of perfection.
Femininity is foremost. Style, hair, makeup, nails, attire. she has to be feminine.
Physicality. So many different body types to appreciate but smaller, thinner, petite, leaner girls do it for me. I've never been a huge fan of exceptionally large breasts or over the top enhancements so proportionate and natural is the most attractive for me.
Versatility is next. I'm a fan of versatile girls as I enjoy both roles in any encounter. Size is not nearly as important as the ability to maintain an erection. Shooting a load is like the icing on the cake but you eat it last instead of first. I can still enjoy a tasty meal without having dessert.
And the "piece de resistance", the single most important factor of any encounter is attitude, passion and connection.
It's difficult to have either of the latter without the former. Being a pragmatic realist with romantic tendencies I understand there is often some acting involved. I get it. But I can't imagine a fully satisfying experience without connection. Regardless of any of the physical traits any girl may possess.
These are my humble opinions. I'ld lover hear more from others.
I love reading well though out comments like this!
I wanted to kind of respond to one point though, an at least give you a reason/explanation why. You made mention of us acting, which in some cases is something I wouldn't deny, but it has purpose.
As I've mentioned previously on the board, through trial and error I've come to the realization that most of what you guys are looking for isn't necessarily in the act itself, but everything surrounding it. Often that is tue make or break on what ends up a 10 encounter and something that's a 5. Most of you guys want that authentic connection, which more often than not, is something you end up lacking for one reason or another in you're lives. Spouses don't pay attention to you and just expect things and take you for granted. Work can consume a lot of time and add to that disconnect from romance in relationships. So having something that puts that fire back into it is an escape of sorts.
We all want to feel loved, appreciated, and cared about. So a provider that takes the time to build that connection and make you feel that way can be a make or break thing. I can't speak about the experiences of other providers, but I can of my own. With that, I can say that I genuinely build that with everyone I see, though some more than others by virtue of shared interests and commonality.some people it's a little bit harder because some of those things are missing, and for expediency of time, an love of what I do, I may kick that up a little bit. I want to make everyone who walks through my door feel special, and sometimes that requires a bit of "embellishment". It's not meant to harm or be deceptive, but as a provider that thoroughly enjoys making your day better, it can be necessary... I wouldn't want anyone to walk out not feeling like a million bucks. I wouldn't say something that wasn't true, but overemphasizing something more benign may happen, but it's for you're benefit.
Make any sense?
I agree, I love that reposado gave such well written feedback.
And I have to touch on what RiverStark said: “We all want to feel loved, appreciated, and cared about. So a provider that takes the time to build that connection and make you feel that way can be a make or break thing” in response to the acting comment. This is what I’ve heard from the majority of SPs that I’ve asked questions to (since I’m still a newbie, I had lots of questions, thank goodness for the internet) they agree that most clients want to feel the connection, that it’s even more important than the rest. I don’t think I’ve had enough experience for myself yet to verify if that’s been true for me or not. But I know for me that at least it’s certainly not all acting. One of my first times a client had to end the session early because his boss called him in for an emergency I felt some very real empathy for him. Like I felt bad he didn’t get his full money’s worth and that our connection was interrupted right in the middle, didn’t even get a chance to wind down before having to end. So, no, it may not be 100% the same as an actual girlfriend kind of connection, but I feel there is still some part of a real connection there.
As far as the main topic question, that’s something I’ve been worried about. I’ve been on HRT for a while now and while everything is still fully functional, 9/10 times my orgasms are dry. And so far this thread seems to be split among what people care about more, feminization or cumming. And I think it’s obvious that to most of us girls that HRT is pretty important to us, but we also care about giving our clients a great experience. It’s good to know what the guys are preferring so thanks for starting this thread.
I would elaborat, but you nailed exactly how i feel and go about my work. Thanks babe.
When I service a transvestite in my car. I'm not worried about her hair, nails of if she can pass in public. I'm just hoping I am the first customer of the day so I can get a massive load. Nothing else matters.
" NO HORMONES! BIG LOADS! 9" super functional I LOVE TO KISS...!!!"
TER says hers is 5"-6", not that super functional length in her ad.
Is her ad in 'tranny inches'?
As for your question, I think most guys who are on these boards understand full well the effects HRT has on a girl. I like a passable girl, but I also like a hard pinga that can squirt. I will happily sacrifice passability for functionality. It's pretty clear that most of the guys on this board feel the same way, but we're pretty experienced TS lovers who are also probably aware of what we like and more at ease with the reality of TS girls. I think if you're asking this question because you want help attracting more clients, you should ask; what kind of client do I want to attract? If you want hardened veterans, like many of us, keep the hormones low...we will overlook the stubble and flat chest to get that hard dick, if you want to attract first timers and curious guys, up the dosage since they want passability. Whatever you do, keep a good atittude. I can have plenty of fun with a flaccid girl who is cool but have a hard time enjoying a hard girl who is an asshole.
I am always looking for a big shooter in Chicago, but most get offended or paranoid if you ask. What is the best way to ask, that leaves no confusion?
no tits, no ass, no hips ... no go.`
I'm not gay or bi, I just have a fetish for women who happen to have the same package that I do. Because I'm not gay or bi, I need the woman to be convincingly girly and feminine. I do enjoy having a TS cum in my mouth, but that's icing on the cake, not a requirement.
Carolina Ramirez sure is amazing to watch. Hot hard and fountain of fun
OMG amazing and so hot.
When I see the girl is on hormones, that her body is actually transforming - I consider this the real evidence that she is a trans woman and committed to her transition. If she hasn't started on hormones yet, then there is much doubt in my mind as to the provider's agenda and true nature. Passability, functionality, and ejaculate are all add-ons and bonuses for me, but if no HRT - that's a deal breaker.