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Depends on the convo....
RiverStark See my TER Reviews 490 reads
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I think some are a little less lenient than other in dealing with people. I'm not sure if it's a first timers deal, or just time wasters in general. I know some girls won't continue a convo if they don't have a time arranged within 10 minutes, and there are others that will spend days talking with a person.

I'd say I end up falling somewhere between the two extremes. If it's an hour booking, I generally won't invest anywhere near as much time in trying to get an appointment booked as I would with someone trying to book an overnight. For a short booking, if it's a call, I'll generally know if it's bullshit within the first 45 seconds to a minute of talking to them. We get thousands upon thousands of calls a year, an you figure out pretty quickly if one of those calls is legit or not pretty early on. That can also change with screening. I don't see anon people and screen everyone until I'm fairly confident I know the color of the spots on the R dog (if they have one), an anyone not willing to comply with screening gets cut off immediately. The same goes for internet numbers; I won't expend any energy beyond confirming it's a burner and requesting they're actual number, or multiple references to confirm that number. For first timers, if they're not willing to give up personal info to be able to verify them (much like one would do when getting a P411 or similar membership), I cut them off there.

I mean I work with someone new to make them comfortable with the process, but generally someone who wants to see you needs little more than your assurance your not trying to steal their identity to book with you. I use to do a lot more cam work and I kind of learned who are the people that are interested, and who are the one just looking to suck up time for a free load.

When it comes to long appointments--5 hours or longer-- I generally give people a lot more wiggle room and go thawed the opposite end of the spectrum of how long I'll wait. I require a 50% deposit on anything over 3 hours, and that's often a lot of money for the type of individual I'm seeing, so I understand some people need that assurance of knowing who they're about to shed a lot of cash to, sight unseen, is safe to do so with. So in some rare cases, I've conversed for a week with a person. Then again, I won't do that unless they've already been screened.

While I only use one review for an extended appointment (I'm told more are coming), I see a pretty high number of people for such, half of which have never had an appointment over a couple hours, let alone 10. I think I have so many overnight because of low rates (my overnight per hour rate end up breaking down to between 250-375 an hour depending on the city and distance from my current location and overnight location) and how much time I willing to invest in getting that set up. I've talked to scores of other providers about it and I constantly hear that I'm crazy for investing that much time, but I think that time makes all the difference, which is why between Nov 1 and Dec 32, I had 26 overnight bookings. People want to develop that personal and emotional connection to a person they see, and that increases steeply with the time commitment in the appointment, so I keep that in mind when I'm booking extended booking and invest time accordingly.

It may seem a little harsh, but I likely won't see a person new to the escort world in general. They tend to be entirely too pushy, unpredictable, and rust can lead to bad things. So unless I have enough personal info to bring their life to a screeching halt, I'm not gonna my to see them and won't wast time past requesting that info. There are just way too many concerns about safety and security in that case and having that info available as leverage if  things go horribly wrong (god forbid I get hurt) is my assurance that things won't.

If we're talking first timers to TS providers, I'll usually invest a bit more time in it. Our society looks quite negatively at trans women, and especially trans providers, so I understand having to help someone past those roadblocks, which takes time, but again, it still relatively obvious if their just looking to exploit your labor.

Is that kind of what you were looking for? If not, let me know.

LATSDog1982 reads

end up being tire kickers or time wasters?  If they email you and have questions, I'm sure you reply...how long will you allow that to go on if a session is not booked until you BLACK LIST them?

Only curious :)

It really depends if progress is being made or if they seem to earnestly be trying to book. That said, I rarely blacklist people for not booking but rather will require specific info before resuming conversation.

....only to meet tire kickers and time wasters.
I only blacklist dangerous people. But never hesitate to warn other ladies about time wasters .

-- Modified on 1/4/2017 11:23:57 AM

..it really seem these guys won't listen. And are probably doomed to a life a fake BP posters.

But I've also four some of the nicest and regular lovers through recommendations..so I thank you! And do know those true gentleman are greatful.

And there are 4 gents on here ...who will go unmetioned....who aren't in my city, who have always given me the kindest and most genuine referrals. I do thank you!

LATSDog342 reads

Always happy to help to those who are appreciative and are serious!

I think some are a little less lenient than other in dealing with people. I'm not sure if it's a first timers deal, or just time wasters in general. I know some girls won't continue a convo if they don't have a time arranged within 10 minutes, and there are others that will spend days talking with a person.

I'd say I end up falling somewhere between the two extremes. If it's an hour booking, I generally won't invest anywhere near as much time in trying to get an appointment booked as I would with someone trying to book an overnight. For a short booking, if it's a call, I'll generally know if it's bullshit within the first 45 seconds to a minute of talking to them. We get thousands upon thousands of calls a year, an you figure out pretty quickly if one of those calls is legit or not pretty early on. That can also change with screening. I don't see anon people and screen everyone until I'm fairly confident I know the color of the spots on the R dog (if they have one), an anyone not willing to comply with screening gets cut off immediately. The same goes for internet numbers; I won't expend any energy beyond confirming it's a burner and requesting they're actual number, or multiple references to confirm that number. For first timers, if they're not willing to give up personal info to be able to verify them (much like one would do when getting a P411 or similar membership), I cut them off there.

I mean I work with someone new to make them comfortable with the process, but generally someone who wants to see you needs little more than your assurance your not trying to steal their identity to book with you. I use to do a lot more cam work and I kind of learned who are the people that are interested, and who are the one just looking to suck up time for a free load.

When it comes to long appointments--5 hours or longer-- I generally give people a lot more wiggle room and go thawed the opposite end of the spectrum of how long I'll wait. I require a 50% deposit on anything over 3 hours, and that's often a lot of money for the type of individual I'm seeing, so I understand some people need that assurance of knowing who they're about to shed a lot of cash to, sight unseen, is safe to do so with. So in some rare cases, I've conversed for a week with a person. Then again, I won't do that unless they've already been screened.

While I only use one review for an extended appointment (I'm told more are coming), I see a pretty high number of people for such, half of which have never had an appointment over a couple hours, let alone 10. I think I have so many overnight because of low rates (my overnight per hour rate end up breaking down to between 250-375 an hour depending on the city and distance from my current location and overnight location) and how much time I willing to invest in getting that set up. I've talked to scores of other providers about it and I constantly hear that I'm crazy for investing that much time, but I think that time makes all the difference, which is why between Nov 1 and Dec 32, I had 26 overnight bookings. People want to develop that personal and emotional connection to a person they see, and that increases steeply with the time commitment in the appointment, so I keep that in mind when I'm booking extended booking and invest time accordingly.

It may seem a little harsh, but I likely won't see a person new to the escort world in general. They tend to be entirely too pushy, unpredictable, and rust can lead to bad things. So unless I have enough personal info to bring their life to a screeching halt, I'm not gonna my to see them and won't wast time past requesting that info. There are just way too many concerns about safety and security in that case and having that info available as leverage if  things go horribly wrong (god forbid I get hurt) is my assurance that things won't.

If we're talking first timers to TS providers, I'll usually invest a bit more time in it. Our society looks quite negatively at trans women, and especially trans providers, so I understand having to help someone past those roadblocks, which takes time, but again, it still relatively obvious if their just looking to exploit your labor.

Is that kind of what you were looking for? If not, let me know.

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