I don't want to know how you felt a week later.
I want to know how you felt during the session. (or shortly after)
So yesterday I met with a provider I'd been dreaming about seeing since I first started this hobby. Today, of course, I'm in a love-struck daze, kicking myself for not having booked a longer stay with the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life.
So, how long should I wait to post my review? Do I give it a week in hopes that my objectivity returns? Or do I give back to her (via my review) some of the euphoria she gave to me?
Thoughts? Is there a "standard operation procedure" here?
I don't want to know how you felt a week later.
I want to know how you felt during the session. (or shortly after)
Yank's opinion. Waiting a few days changes your thoughts. Waiting a week or more REALLY changes your thoughts. (With rocket science or "The Grapes of Wrath" that is probably a good thing...)
If the review is leaning towards negative I wait for some perspective so I don't write out of frustration or buyer's remorse, or anger or whatever. I made that mistake but once.
I'd rather hear a long, gloriously descriptive, love-struck ramble than a well thought out tome with lots of second guessing. (But I'm a damn romantic)
and I'm waiting a few days in order to gain some perspective. Had I written a review yesterday I seriously would have given her a shitty review. I was pissed off over our session; I had buyer's remorse. The more I think about it, the more I'm able to give a fairly objective review. And in the end, that's what we all want...
Exactly. If you wait a bit it's easier to relax and figure out what part you played in the bad chemistry and write about the two of you...not just her... objectively.
How can you be constructive about it all, instead of destructive? A review like that won't kill her biz, particularly if she has many other good reviews.
JP I am still waiting for a chance to review you.
Kisses
Georgia
I have no doubt I will get a bad score until we practice practice practice!
If I do not write a review immediately, all the details seem to blur together. If I have two sessions before writing a review, lord have mercy. I can attest that the mind does go first!!
It's funny, by and large my memory sucks. Yet I can remember every minor detail of these encounters for months afterward, regardless of the number of sessions in between. So, I'm able to write the reviews at my convenience. It's no damn wonder my work has suffered lately, these women are clogging up my brain.
I do it the same night, usually, or at least start on it, save it and then submit it the next day.
I use a similar method. I will quickly write down a few notes within the first 24 hours to get my initial reaction. (I have the short-term memory of a goldfish!) This is so I will not forget any specific details and also to retain the original elated emotion from the experience. This will later provide somewhat of an outline to work from when typing out the actual review as I can organize all these random thoughts into a hopefully intelligent recall of the event done moment by moment. This method works well for me to include the immediate emotional response with accurate detailed descriptions of what made an impression on me, and also allows time to reflect on the experience and give a more objective view if needed. Sometimes it may be a few days or even a couple weeks before I take time to sit down and submit the review. But by going through this process, I feel it will not suffer since the original thoughts and ideas were actually from how I felt at that moment in time, just clarified and organized while writing.
The important part to me is that we share this information with each other, and show the ladies how much we appreciate them.
Fact is, I get writers' block a lot.
This last review took a total of 9 hours to write.
/Zin
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You had a good pont regarding giving her back some of the feeling of euphoria that she gave you. If she is good at what she does, then she is going to afect many clients that way, and she should be known for such. As such, you will represent that with the most detail soon afterwards, unless you are someone who rolls it over in his head for two months like I have been doing with the last two amazing women I saw. :P
it's not just reporting. So I agree with JP, above, when he says he waits a little while for a negative review, to neutalize he vitriol a bit. But I second MSD when he sez write the good ones soon.
The infatuation you feel, that goofy endorphine buzz that leaves you pining away like a lovesice teenager, is one of the most valued gifts a lady can give us*, and only the excellent ones can. Each lady is a unique chime and though the resonance from a great session lingers long after, it still fades. Dude, share it soon so we can at least cop a vicarious feel.
* and, of course, we're paying for
found a great form here months ago but do not know where we ladies can post them once we fill them out
http://theeroticreview.com/MsgBoard/viewmsg.asp?BoardID=12&SortBy=DateCreated%20desc&Search=TER%20REVIEW%20FORM%20FOR%20PROVIDER%20O&SearchType=1&Author=jockeypants&DayFrom=300&DayTo=0&Submit=Submit&MessageID=101078
Yikes! That probably IS what I look like (every time).
It gives a chance for the smoke to clear and you can be a little more objective.
I like to mull over the event for 2 or more days. This also gives time to formulate a coherent itinerary of the activities enjoyed making for a more literate review. Waiting longer than 7 days however tends to blur too many details thus calling on creativity to fill in the gaps.
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