I've been involved in this 'hobby' for over six years and in that time I've come to realize several things. The most important is that each lady must deal with five types of men.

The first type of man is the one that really enjoyed spending time with her, and her with him. He will usually see the lady again and have an even better time as they become more comfortable. He will generally post very favorable reviews and come to their rescue if they’re being bashed on the boards.

The second type just enjoyed the time they spent together, and may or may not see the lady again. If they do, most will move up to the first type, while the ones that don’t will just move on.

The third type didn't enjoy the encounter at all, and may or may not post a negative review, but may be willing to join in on a thread bashing the lady if he comes across one later on.

The fourth type is the man that the lady didn't agree to see, this group sometimes gets vindictive as they can’t believe that their money couldn’t buy them what they wanted.

The fifth type is the most annoying, but hopefully the smallest group. These are the men who were once members in very good standing of the first type, but they just couldn’t keep their relationship in perspective. They crossed the line without being invited and can’t understand why they were told where their true place was. All are hurt, but some become very vindictive.