You'll build some up soon enough!
First of all, Hi all. Im TS_Rachel from MN.
I just recently started feeling like I was confident enough to participate in this hobby again. I did find it funny that it was called a hobby as that is how I view it right now. It is something I have always wanted to do again. I have a full time job in a professional field but I dont know, it is just my kind of hobby. I started dancing again at a local club on wednesdays and was approached by a guy wanting to be a regular but I didnt get a good feeling from him, so I turned him down but it woke this up again.
That being said, I have put up a few ads on BP and had some responses but they all seemed to think it was free even though it was listed under the escort section. Im not sure exactly how to post this in a way that makes it obvious but not make me look like a prostitute. I know, i know im just curious, how do most people handle that.
I am glad I found this site and have gleaned a lot of information. But I was curious if there was anywhere that had mentors for the new girls? I know it sounds weird but Im also into a lot of kinks and joined another site dedicated to that, and there they have mentors that will help you learn and experiment with kinks of the BDSM style.
I have pulled my ads for now so that I can figure it out and do it right since I am trans and do not want to get hurt. I did ask for references and most people looked at me like I was crazy...
I also didnt see where this photo post is for transgender girls, and the rules said to post ads for transgender girl in the transgender section and not the regional board, is this correct?
Sorry I know that is a lot of information. I am just looking to do this all right, well as right as possible.
let's see
hobbyists are the guys who participate. you would be deemed a provider
if they are looking for free just don't respond, true hobbyists expect to "donate some roses", how many and for what timeframe is really up to you.
you get a bad vibe, trust your intuition! better safe than sorry.
you have some really great ladies in your area, reach out to them for guidance.
good luck and hopefully you will travel some and we can connect!
Thank you for the great information. One question I forgot to add in the original post. I am a new provider, I get I can put TER on the BP post to kinda weed out people, and get people who know what it is. But is there a way to kinda say Im new and dont have reviews yet. I have read enough to know that some guys wont reach out for that reason. I know I will probably just have to deal with it for now, but was curious. I do travel often for work, and sometimes have been known to have ads up in those cities. Who knows. =)
https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/messageList.asp?boardID=110
At the moment we can only post in the transsexual sections, although there's been talk in the past about letting us post in our city. But at the moment it's a no.
Hope this helps! But board participation , and using TER should help some. Feel free to PM me!
Thanks for the link. I see the ad board link now. I don't have any reviews yet so I'm assuming I can't post there, but I can find out how other girls are doing things. Thanks for the help.
You'll build some up soon enough!
Make sure you let people know when and where you are traveling. That might be a good way to meet some hobbyists and get a few reviews going ... the regional ads are good for that ...