Yes. He should be mad at himself for trusting her. BUT, she is the one who ripped him off. An honest person wouldn't rip someone off at all. Let's not blame the victim, even if he was a bit stupid. That's like saying "That girl wore a miniskirt and a bikini top to a frat party, she deserved to get raped". It's just not true. Because someone is vulnerable is NOT a reason to take advantage of them.
A few months ago I offered to purchase a provider tickets to a concert. I told her to try to make time for me while I was in her territory and if our schedules didn't meet up it would be ok, we could hook up whenever she was in my territory or whenever I went back to hers. So, she is in my territory and will not return my e-mails when she was more than happy to agree to terms previously. I consider this a "take the money and run" situation. Wondering if I should post a review. She has great reviews, new on the scene, totally hot and I would almost hate to hurt her reputation but I'm very tempted. Anyone have any suggestions?
And from your original post you say you only "offered" to buy her tickets to a concert. Seems like a miscommunication to me.
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Yes. He should be mad at himself for trusting her. BUT, she is the one who ripped him off. An honest person wouldn't rip someone off at all. Let's not blame the victim, even if he was a bit stupid. That's like saying "That girl wore a miniskirt and a bikini top to a frat party, she deserved to get raped". It's just not true. Because someone is vulnerable is NOT a reason to take advantage of them.
Not only was there an offer there was an acceptance as well as consideration from both parties. This party, the victim, upheld his end of the bargain. That party, accepted the ticket under the conditions and offered consideration in accordance with that outlined in the original post which this party accepted. However, the other party did not comply with the agreed upon consideration after accepting the ticket. So, no miscommunication occurred at all. The other party is in the wrong. Granted I may run into some scum bags in this business and I'm not exactly a pillar of the community but I'm not a thief, I don't like thieves and I certainly don't like scum bags. This person is exactly that.....a scumbag.
The purpose this site exists is to review providers, especially those that are in some way dishonest or cheats. How will you feel when she does it to someone else knowing that you did nothing to stop it? Would you have preferred to know that she would rip you off before it happened so you could avoid it? I don't understand your moral dilemma. She's clearly NOT your friend despite accepting your concert tickets. You're worried about "ruining" her reputation? I'd say she already did that for herself... You should also tell us all who it was here on the boards in case she weasels out of the review somehow, so we know not to see her and can warn anyone else who asks.
You got fucking scammed!!!! Aren't you pissed? I would be all over that shit on this site! I would also get a burner phone and make an appointment to see her without telling her who I am so I could confront her personally. Although, I would never buy concert tickets for a hooker and expect a freebie next time I saw her. Honestly, that seems a bit stupid to me. Cash on delivery is how this business works.
... are for what actually happened within the actual session (ease of setting up, getting to her location, atmosphere, looks, performance, etc). They did not have a session and I am sure if he writes this review, it will make it difficult for him to see reputable providers who would wonder about his overall judgement. Also different if he got to her in-call and she misrepresented herself or did not deliver as promised, then absolutely excoriate her in a Rip-Off Review. There are several Rip-Off reporting sites and I suggest he take his grievance there.
I also 100% agree with timtotl that he should out her on this board to warn other gents, but if an actual session did not take place, a review is not prudent.
He didn't say whether he had a session or not. I assumed he did and that's where they negogiated their agreement about the tickets for a future session. If they never had a session, then he won't be able to review her here. It never crossed my mind that someone would give money (ok, concert tickets) to someone without having first met them. If he did have a session with her, he could mark the session as a "rip off" since he negotiated for a future session but never recieved it.
Either way, I feel strongly that he should disclose who he is talking about here on the boards...
Did he purchase the tickets, then mail them to the provider? Where were they sent? If money, was sent to purchase the tickets, did the money get sent to some address in Nigeria? Your right, you definitely can't blame the vulnerable one but you also have to apply some common sense. Hopefully you paid for nose bleed tickets up in the rafters but I have a feeling not.
Growing up, my 80 year old neighbor use to hire construction workers to remodel parts of her home. Several times she gave them a signed blank check and told them to go buy supplies. I'm drawing a similar parallel 
I purchased the tickets through a site in her real name. Contacted the dealer of the tickets to confirm the tickets were picked up by the name provided. Then I monitored her snapchat to see if she attended the event. Sure enough, she did and even gave a shout out to her "fan" who purchased the ticket for her. I'm not angry as many posts seem to indicate, I know it was a risk, especially since this provider is young and new so I am not surprised. Since we did not meet I cannot write a review but I will not out somebody in the general section but I will be happy to out her via PM. Indeed, she offers prepaid meetings on her website as well so it may be very beneficial for people to understand she is a risk. Getting ripped off happens, it comes with the game, its a risk we take.....among many other risks.
Just giving you a hard time. We have all been scammed one time or another.
If anyone hobbies this genre in NYC, Miami, LA, Chicago or LV you may want to PM me to see who it is. I won't do it on the board.
a review would not be appropriate, you have nothing to review