I hope not to come across as judging, either -- but stories like that are why, as a provider, I'm on PrEP. Not perfect, but it gives me lots of peace of mind in case of "accidents".

I had been debating about seeing this provider.  After reading the review I think she is off the table.

its rule one in my book and imho should be so in the hobbyist's as well. no amount of money will change that. in fact the more you say you'll offer to pay for a bareback experience, the faster i'll run in the other direction. and again imho, if a provider is ready willing and able to go bareback, be afraid, be very afraid.  if you truly want a bareback sitch, find a non-provider tgirl that desires a 1-on-1 relationship or a provider that's willing to convert to a sugar daddy sugar baby exclusive deal. no it ain't cheap, but tanstaafl