About an hour prior to my session, I go and have Mexican food with super hot hot sauce. That's the beast way to cleanse.
I'm just so confused. Guy asks if I could top as well as bottom. I say yes, but under certain very specific conditions -- including that I would have to clean him out personally and give him an enema. He hangs up at this point. In disgust, I guess? (Idk, an ex of mine kind of got off on me douching him.) But do most guys just think we're just magically clean? I have to douche myself several times a day when I'm working.
I ask this because when guys still hop in the shower, then ask for a rimjob, the critical parts to lick still taste off somewhat. (Compared to girls and transgirls alike who I've been with, who've always tasted clean =D). I hope this is not too graphic -- but is it reasonable to expect that in order for a (trans)girl to enjoy rimming a client and topping a client, that the client at least rinse the necessary parts out with soapy water? Or would most clients see this as too much trouble?
I'm just confused because I thought it reasonable to expect reciprocity in cleaning habits but maybe I'm wrong. I would actually really enjoy rimming a guy if he cleaned out properly and allowed me to shave him but most people seem put off by this requirement -- why?
I agree with you %100 Stephanie, clean is better! It's better for the person topping and for the person bottoming because they can relax and enjoy the feeling without worrying about being dirty. Getting an enema from someone doesn't sound fun to me at all, I prefer cleansing in private. I would probably hang up too if that were a requirement. To me, that's way too clinical to be hot. I want a session to start with some DFK and groping, not with an enema. Lol. I understand your dilemma though, I've seen plenty of girls who haven't cleansed before a session....
but maybe the issue was how I worded it.
basically so many times I've had clients who "showered" but didn't really thoroughly clean the critical areas. also they have zero experience shaving their pubes. hence why I want to do it for them, so that both of us can thoroughly maximally enjoy the experience. =) but then again, I have a lot of first-timers or second-timers calling me ...
also I've definitely made showering part of the fun -- especially with silicone lube (I buy a big 32oz bottle of it and fill smaller TSA-sized bottles with it). It's like nuru massage + table shower (never actually given these, just heard about it from an asian cisgirl I was working with) all at once without all the mess.
also a question -- for those that like burying their face in a girl / eating a girl out (cis or trans) -- do most people here conscientiously get clean-shaven beforehand? so many times I've thought, "wow, he's really enthusiastic, and it would be really super orgasmic and awesome if only his 5 o'clock shadow weren't so prickly!"
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A provider guided me through the cleansing prep over the phone before our 1st date...it worked out well. My ritual is I get the disposable enema bottle and a couple gallons of drinking water. I do #2 first, then begin the douching. I will keep re-filling the enema bottle with drinking water until I see "all clear" a few times in a row. Then I shower and shave. The other thing I've started doing is bringing a small travel tube of anal desensitizing lube. I find that sometimes all the douching can make me over-sensitive.
As far as dining at Y/rimming goes, I love to give and receive. I always show up for dates with my face clean shaven. My experience has been most providers will receive, very few will give. I recently waxed my bum and the pain I endured has paid off. I have noticed that providers who will agree to rim me are spending more time down there, now that I am smooth.
About an hour prior to my session, I go and have Mexican food with super hot hot sauce. That's the beast way to cleanse.
Lmao ! Really,really? Everyday everyday, all day long. Sad.
I have done the process with good & bad results. Sometimes even though I have thoroughly douched, there was some residue and we had a "Dirty" result. Now the outer and entrance are completely clean. I would gladly have you instruct me and cleanse me. If you come out to San Diego, I will definitely book a session with you!
This was an X'lnt post....
I think most guys would of at least seen their wife, girlfriend or a female flushing out that vag.at least once. No stink down there ,keeps em cumming back! I'm not into being rimmed or rimming,except with a female. Yes I have givin & received a cleansing from some very attractive ladies. Luckily I've never deal with a stinky poop on a Tgirl. If by chance I run up on one, I'd tell her clean up or I'm out! No reason to just accept it, Douche fellas! And wash that section between your sack & asshole! Lol
knowing how a less than fresh nether region can stop me in my tracks, I always make sure to clean well before a date. And if I am unsure when I arrive, I ask for a shower just to be safe.
I do enjoy a fair amount of ass play...both giving and receiving so I really make sure to clean well. I have never used an enema to prepare, but if a provider asked to douche me...I would be squatting naked in the tub before you could say boo!
It is just common sense to be as clean and fresh as possible...I expect that in my date and would provide the same in return.
I visited with a provider once who included cleaning instructions on we website and I always remember her tip...if you think you have done a thorough job....go back and do it again.
I don't really get it how a guy who wants to take a clock in the ass is put off by a request to be given an enema!
sorry, it seems obvious you really don't know what is being discussed, enema in a bath tub?? yuck!
a quick shower is not going to cut it
I always clean my ass well before seeing a TS, but I'm still new to this particular game, and there may be a few tricks I haven't picked up on yet. And I think taking a shower or a bath with a woman can be incredibly erotic, so a TS is more than welcome to clean me further, if she desires. It becomes just another part of the lovemaking. Hell, I'd let a TS trim/shave my pubes, if she wanted to. She has her own dick, so she knows how to handle them, so I wouldn't be concerned for the "safety" of my junk. That could add an extra level of hot to a date, as well.
best of luck with that attitude
So we are talking about client prep, but I'm wondering what to do about a provider who doesn't clean properly. Gents - what do you do when the girl is rocking the stink bug down there or worse yet - has a bullet in the chamber? For me, it's usually complete boner kill. If the girl is sweet and this is her only negative, I won't write a review - good or bad. But this shit really pisses me off. And when they are like - well I pooped earlier (unapologetic, deal with it attitude) I'm like - You frickin' amateur. I feel like taking back part of the donation when it happens, which has been way too frequent lately.
that is why i do so much research and really pay attention to reviews. i can count on one finger my really big screwups and that was all my fault
I think the issue is that the guy isn't your boyfriend. You are accepting a donation from him for services to be given. I don't think you have any right to ask anything from him. You can always refuse what he wants and give him his donation back or suck it up so to speak. No one is forcing you to see him again. Or you can give a half assed session and maybe get a bad review. You are getting rewarded for pleasing him and not for him giving you pleasure.
no reviews, that self centered, selfish attitude, good luck! think how much fun could be had if you went out of your way to make others happy!
I really, really enjoy men who have always been well-groomed in all the critical regions, and have washed themselves thoroughly. I get super into it, which is always been my goal. At times I actually feel like asking clients with an off odor whether I could wash them, but I also don't want to offend them.
it's your bedroom! i make sure i have no issues, but if a lovely lady invited me into a nice soapy shower to start things off, you bet your cute ass i would gladly follow!
ps
toni tease liked to take a break after the first hard fuck and hit the shower, get all soapy clean and back to bed for more rimming, sucking and fucking! a great strategy/plan!