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re: How often do you guys use P411 to find a provider?
TSIvyAnders See my TER Reviews 526 reads
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Yeah.
I mean, it sucks (no doubt) to be ok to fuck in secret, but somehow I'm not good enough for them to actually be seen with me.
Trust me...that shit hurts. Like...I didn't CHOOSE to be like this, contrary to what some people believe.  
No one wants me to be "normal' more than I do.  
But...I'm not, and that's just the way life is.  
I can either let that shit eat away at me, and allow it to keep me from being happy....or I can choose to accept what I've been dealt, and make the best of it.
People can fight over what bathroom I can use, or who I can marry, or even whether I should be allowed to live, but they can't take ME from me.  

Luckily, not all guys are like that. Even in this biz. I've had the pleasure of being with men who have absolutely no issue being seen with me hanging on their arm in public.

Plus...some of those guys who would never be caught dead with me....they pay me pretty well ;)

TSIvyAnders1846 reads

I just registered on there, and come to find out there are only, like, 12 trans girls on there for the entire state of Texas, and I'm the only girl listed for Austin.
Just wondering if it's something you all use for finding/vetting a provider.

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timotl1389 reads

There are a few of those "vetting" sites, all ask for personal information. Discretion and anonymity are cornerstones of this business. Divulging personal information to a third party website (and having to pay to do so!) seems contrary to both of those principles.

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stillettos7960 reads

The only sure shot is at a social medium, Club,Lounge,Bar,GM rallies. Let them know what their getting into.lol Seems to work in most cities I've been. Very easy.No guessing or hoping involved.

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E.T.A.Hoffmann584 reads

Some girls swear by it, but I have never had occasion to, and never found it necessary.

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JessicaOngTS906 reads

It is not necessarily a bad thing that for you that other trans providers in your area aren't on P411.  

As a trans provider, I have received numerous bookings via P411. My impression is that the clients who have contacted me through P411 tend to be less-likely to be wasting my time, more-likely to cooperate with screening, and more-likely to book multi-hour appointments.

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AngelaMarie599 reads

Posted By: JessicaOngTS
It is not necessarily a bad thing that for you that other trans providers in your area aren't on P411.  
   
 As a trans provider, I have received numerous bookings via P411. My impression is that the clients who have contacted me through P411 tend to be less-likely to be wasting my time, more-likely to cooperate with screening, and more-likely to book multi-hour appointments.
 
I would have to say i strongly agree with Jessica and the other ladies (and gentlemen here) that have used, or regularly use the P411 service.... I think it is an excellent medium for eliminating almost all flakes, fakes, fishing, or other forms of harassment, fake booking, no-shows, etc. on both sides of the page.... Typically i find a higher quality of person reaching out to me from there, that i can be assured has already been (voluntarily) vetted, to an extent that makes me much more comfortable, and i know this is true of my special friends that over time have found me there as well...

It's more exclusive, and i would rather share exclusivity via more lines of verifiable personal security, real references, and quality of time spent in contact, than many other sites i have dealt with over the years.  

Hope everyone here has a great Holiday weekend, finds lots of fun and relaxation, and,

Safe Travels always,

Namaste'

:)

AngelaGirl

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TSSiren69648 reads

Hi been lurking here for awhile, never really replied to post or other things on boards. I have wondered that same question too (thanks for asking) as I ponder on your question a more important one comes to mind in regards to gentlemen who are ISO Trans-Providers which many (not all but some) see genetic ladies too, obviously they wouldn't review a real female and a tgirl from the same account which means do some have multiple accounts on sites such as P411 and other places??

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timotl606 reads

If they have any guys at all they would use the same account.

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TSIvyAnders509 reads

Yeah...but let's face it. A LOT of guys who are in to trans girls/guys don't want anyone to know because they're afraid of being ridiculed by their peers.  
Sure, a lot of guys aren't worried about it, but more often than not, that is the case.
It's an uphill battle, of sorts.

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timotl510 reads

True. But, honestly, isn't that part of the problem? Guys who will fuck you but not be seen with you in public. I call that cowardice.

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TSIvyAnders527 reads

Yeah.
I mean, it sucks (no doubt) to be ok to fuck in secret, but somehow I'm not good enough for them to actually be seen with me.
Trust me...that shit hurts. Like...I didn't CHOOSE to be like this, contrary to what some people believe.  
No one wants me to be "normal' more than I do.  
But...I'm not, and that's just the way life is.  
I can either let that shit eat away at me, and allow it to keep me from being happy....or I can choose to accept what I've been dealt, and make the best of it.
People can fight over what bathroom I can use, or who I can marry, or even whether I should be allowed to live, but they can't take ME from me.  

Luckily, not all guys are like that. Even in this biz. I've had the pleasure of being with men who have absolutely no issue being seen with me hanging on their arm in public.

Plus...some of those guys who would never be caught dead with me....they pay me pretty well ;)

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timotl486 reads

Posted By: TSIvyAnders
Plus...some of those guys who would never be caught dead with me....they pay me pretty well ;)
Lol. A girl's gotta eat! ;)

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TSIvyAnders493 reads

Posted By: timotl
 Lol. A girl's gotta eat! ;)
For the weak are meat, and the strong do eat.

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watch560 reads

I use P411. It saves time on both sides because it reduces the likelihood of flakes, no shows and games.

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TSTAYLORATL618 reads

Is probably the best site out there IMO.

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TSIvyAnders663 reads

...I guess Ill just see how it goes.  
I agree, Jessica, being one of few is probably better than one of many, in this case

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TsSelenaLopez519 reads

I reside in Dallas I still use p411 but i preferred it better when there was the ad board up and not the available now.. I got way more business back then..  I know I am late to this posting..

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