I saw an agency provider while out of town on business. She had a hand full of reviews that were positive. And least the ones I read all described GFE like services (i.e. some kissing and bbbj). I wasn't provided with either.
Which leads to my question. What is the general view on discussion of expected services once the session has began?Generally speaking if a provider grabs a cover when about to give me a bj, i've never requested for it not to be used. I figure if thats the service she provides thats what she provides. I've never got into the negotiated are we going to do this... can we do this... once a session has started, all the good sessions I've had involved natural type flow of what goes on. Personally dont want to go into a "hey, on TER user BillyFromPortHuron says you bbbj into completion.. why am I getting covered" that for me would take away completely from the session. All in all the session was rather good, just wasn't entirely what I was expecting.. and it made me wonder is there a general feeling on what should or shouldnt be discussed once a session has begun.
I agree, it's not something I feel comfortable addressing - the difference in expectations from reviews and what happened that is. Some things can be addressed tactfully. A handful of reviews from an agency where you're the traveler... I'd expect a little caution and safety there myself I suppose, but haven't had that experience lately.
Don't know there's much other than leave an honest review personally for others. Women do change and YMM always V, so have to respect that.
1) In terms of menu discussion on a first date, I find a spot somewhere to kindly break in and ask her what, if anything is off the menu. For me, it's usually after some hugging, kissing and caressing, but before any real action begins, though this might vary a little bit. The most common response I get is no anal or super rough play, which generally isn't my thing on a first date anyway.
All of my experiences with reviewed providers have been consistent with the existing reviews.
2) Without reading too far into your specific experience as you are only describing one encounter, I will add that if a client is consistently receiving something significantly different than what is repetitively documented in a provider's reviews, the client may be well served to assess his or her presentation. In these cases, a serious look at one's appearance, HYGIENE, personality and attitude is in order to see what can be improved to achieve better results. It's typically one of these factors that causes a provider to pull back and limit otherwise "normal" menu items with a client.
May depend on her comfort level with you or possibly hygiene.
Which leads to my question. What is the general view on discussion of expected services once the session has began?
Generally speaking if a provider grabs a cover when about to give me a bj, i've never requested for it not to be used. I figure if thats the service she provides thats what she provides.
I've never got into the negotiated are we going to do this... can we do this... once a session has started, all the good sessions I've had involved natural type flow of what goes on. Personally dont want to go into a "hey, on TER user BillyFromPortHuron says you bbbj into completion.. why am I getting covered" that for me would take away completely from the session.
All in all the session was rather good, just wasn't entirely what I was expecting.. and it made me wonder is there a general feeling on what should or shouldnt be discussed once a session has begun.
Thanks to everyone that replied. Appreciate the feedback.
YMMV but it depends on the guy and the comfort established. For most guys, we have to use a cover until I get comfortable exchanging body fluids wi th you. But then again, my most favorite thing is to get a cream pie.... YMMV but maybe with you being a new customer, she had rules for the first engagement. Every woman is different and that's why I recommend your requests via email to make sure we are on the same page. Some men we have to cover but after a relationship is established..... wild cards can be put to use.