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Quityerbitchin 37 Reviews 434 reads
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While I agree with 99.9% of the comments, figured I'd weigh in as I've written a few bad reviews since coming back to this community after a very long hiatus. Like any other forum (Yelp, Google, etc.) I am typically motivated to review when the service was either very good, very bad, or pretty good & no reviews have been posted yet. When the service is just average, I don't bother. I'm starting to rethink my position on writing reviews for average service, as I believe they help to paint a more complete picture of the provider, who is human after all. I'm pretty understanding of providers who flake. One time that happened, and I ended having a 'come to Jesus talk' with the provider who has turned out to be a friend. I explained it like this to her - the average client is married and professional. He is likely to have been planning his escapade for days - taking time off from his job, slowly telling white lies to substantiate the story to his wife (and kids perhaps). Maybe the client has had to drive some distance to see the provider. There can be much time and energy invested in this game on the part of the client. She got it and is someone who has LOTS of great reviews. That said, I do feel very strongly about providers that are either a) not honest or b) rude and disrespectful. At the end of the day, providers sell a product that is intangible and can only be measured by the client's happiness. The money a provider makes from the product they sell is earned income tax free which means (with exception of the sales tax they pay for consumption) providers are not contributing their fair share of the budget that makes the world go round (like roads, education, government services, social security, etc.) My expectations are that I will have a good time, commensurate with price paid, and what I ask for in the bedroom is pretty tame on the spectrum of tastes. I don't ask for freaky-deaky fetish stuff, it's strictly vanilla sex for me. I do, however, expect to be treated with respect. If the chemistry isn't happening but the girl is cool about it, I'm cool too. But I cut no provider slack for being rude. Think about it like this... if you went to a very fancy restaurant hoping to have one of those special meals that you will think about for years, spending $$$$ like you was Bill Gates, only to have the food come out terrible and the server was a complete B**tch, how likely would you be to complain to the manager? Ok, so there is no manager to complain to; how likely are you to get on Yelp and write a poor review? While, it may be true that a provider can do just fine with several bad reviews, my hope is that the contributions of this reviewer community are making an impact for the better.

I think Bad (or lower number) reviews are a good thing sometimes.  I think it shows the girls are human and don't click with everyone.  I have no idea what it is like to live the life as a ts escort and I never will.  I am also no one to judge any girl for making a living.   I have tremendous props for those girls who are legit and just trying to make ends meet.  I wrote a response to XXXXXX in an earlier thread about a girl who was getting bullied by a review.  I don't know what happened but I feel the guy should have his say.  As long as he did in fact see her.  If he is just making up reviews (and bad ones at that) just to get VIP status then hell yes that review should be taken down.  But if the guy did see the girl and didn't like the service or didn't get what he was promised then what does it hurt with that one bad review.  If she is truly good provider and A) isn't a rip off or B) had a bad night, it will not hurt her in the least.  

But like I said that's just my humble opinion, and it may be a wrong one, but isn't that why we all come to this site?

Posted By: kerinn
I think Bad (or lower number) reviews are a good thing sometimes.  I think it shows the girls are human and don't click with everyone.  I have no idea what it is like to live the life as a ts escort and I never will.  I am also no one to judge any girl for making a living.   I have tremendous props for those girls who are legit and just trying to make ends meet.  I wrote a response to XXXXXX in an earlier thread about a girl who was getting bullied by a review.  I don't know what happened but I feel the guy should have his say.  As long as he did in fact see her.  If he is just making up reviews (and bad ones at that) just to get VIP status then hell yes that review should be taken down.  But if the guy did see the girl and didn't like the service or didn't get what he was promised then what does it hurt with that one bad review.  If she is truly good provider and A) isn't a rip off or B) had a bad night, it will not hurt her in the least.    
   
 But like I said that's just my humble opinion, and it may be a wrong one, but isn't that why we all come to this site?  
Totally agree.  No such thing as perfection.. Sometimes people just don't click.

Reviews are always subjective and everyone can have a bad day. One bad review Doesnt mean a girl is a scammer or a fake. I usually ignore the lowest and highest review, just like Olympic judging. If she only has one review and it's bad, that worries me. A string of bad reviews worries me more. One bad one mixed with a bunch of good ones? Meh.

While I agree with 99.9% of the comments, figured I'd weigh in as I've written a few bad reviews since coming back to this community after a very long hiatus. Like any other forum (Yelp, Google, etc.) I am typically motivated to review when the service was either very good, very bad, or pretty good & no reviews have been posted yet. When the service is just average, I don't bother. I'm starting to rethink my position on writing reviews for average service, as I believe they help to paint a more complete picture of the provider, who is human after all. I'm pretty understanding of providers who flake. One time that happened, and I ended having a 'come to Jesus talk' with the provider who has turned out to be a friend. I explained it like this to her - the average client is married and professional. He is likely to have been planning his escapade for days - taking time off from his job, slowly telling white lies to substantiate the story to his wife (and kids perhaps). Maybe the client has had to drive some distance to see the provider. There can be much time and energy invested in this game on the part of the client. She got it and is someone who has LOTS of great reviews. That said, I do feel very strongly about providers that are either a) not honest or b) rude and disrespectful. At the end of the day, providers sell a product that is intangible and can only be measured by the client's happiness. The money a provider makes from the product they sell is earned income tax free which means (with exception of the sales tax they pay for consumption) providers are not contributing their fair share of the budget that makes the world go round (like roads, education, government services, social security, etc.) My expectations are that I will have a good time, commensurate with price paid, and what I ask for in the bedroom is pretty tame on the spectrum of tastes. I don't ask for freaky-deaky fetish stuff, it's strictly vanilla sex for me. I do, however, expect to be treated with respect. If the chemistry isn't happening but the girl is cool about it, I'm cool too. But I cut no provider slack for being rude. Think about it like this... if you went to a very fancy restaurant hoping to have one of those special meals that you will think about for years, spending $$$$ like you was Bill Gates, only to have the food come out terrible and the server was a complete B**tch, how likely would you be to complain to the manager? Ok, so there is no manager to complain to; how likely are you to get on Yelp and write a poor review? While, it may be true that a provider can do just fine with several bad reviews, my hope is that the contributions of this reviewer community are making an impact for the better.

some reviewers have the most unrealistic standards.  I read the description of some sessions and find out that the performance scores - where the performances involve most positions/techniques and partial to full GFE's - are like 6s and 7s.  Hard to believe what someone would have had to do to garner 8s and above.  One example is Valeria Fierce and an even more bizarre example is Sexy Brandis.  These women seem to deliver tremendous sessions yet some of their ratings make no sense.  (Hoping to sample both)

I try to be very fair and accurate, and maybe I err a little on the high side, but some of these reviewers are downright stingy with their ratings.  Does;t do us any favors, either.

thoughts from a current provider that back in the day was a hobbyist on this site. by and large my experience is that reviews tend to be generous unless somebody is a horror show (flake, nothing like pics, money grab, etc.). And that generosity is not the case in most customer service situations. when I was in food & bev hospitality industry we'd say if a patron has a good experience they might tell a friend or two, but if they had a bad one they'd share it with everybody including the grocery clerk who asks, "so how's your day going?"  when it comes to the ts escort reviews, i think average or even not so good reviews (putting aside the aforesaid horror show scenario) are not such a negative for us providers. i say that based on a "she's as represented and for real" basis. right now I have 2 good reviews but they're getting some age on them. candidly I wouldn't mind a so so review to bring me more current on TER (check back with me once I get one of those, lol). and I remember from my hobbyist days that a provider with a lack of more up to date reviews got the fisheye from me.  imho xoxo kacy tgirl

Yes! So Glad someone else said this. There are pretty clear guidelines for reviews so when I see all these providers with dozens of review *averaging* 10/10s or even 9/9s it seems fishy to me. I'm pretty knew here, but it seems a 7/7 should be seen as pretty solid. Because how could hundreds of providers each be "one in a million?" Especially when all these reviews are coming from the same accounts... Not jumping to conclusions, but I've heard some rumors :/

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