Wow, I just discovered a reason to visit the ATL some time!
Gentlemen,
I'm curious if any of you have had experiences with girls on mainstream dating websites. There is a girl I'm curious about on OK Cupid that I'm thinking of reaching out to, but this would be a new experience for me. I've seen a few providers but have never encountered a trans girl that I've been attracted to on a dating site until now. However, her profile is somewhat sparse on details, so I'm kind of skeptical. She does have multiple photos that do seem real though.
Not sure if posting this question is out of bounds because this is dating vs. arrangements, but figured I'd pose the question. Appreciate anyone with experience who is willing to share. Thanks!
But also from what I have read over the years, most of these girls end up asking how generous you can be sometime during the exchange of messages. Not sure about Cupid, but definitely on AFF.com.
Report back either way!
Where I live, I have seen pros and regular TS girls maintain profiles on Badoo. My advice would be to do your homework before taking the leap. Reverse search her photos, etc. If the girl is in the game (escorting), then the question is - do you want to date a working girl? If she is young and pretty, chances are she is a hustler. While there are some attractive trans-women who do not escort they are rarest of the rare. Regardless of situation, your odds are not good. For example, I live in a city where the ratio of trans-women to genetic women is about 200 to 2.5 million. ~75% of those 200 TS ladies show up on CL or BP all the time or some of the time depending on their circumstances and when bills are due. The theme among the ads I've seen from the regular girls is that potential suitors are ranked in the following order: #1 a young VGL bodybuilder with foot long penis, #2 a random guy with drugs to share and a 11 inch penis, #3 a millionaire sugar daddy with limitless generosity and a 10 inch penis. I would recommend you proceed with caution when pursuing unicorns, but if she checks out - go for it! If you are in it to win it, then treat her like you would any other girl and never call her by her "boy" name.
I suppose you are right, however this girl is advertising her age as in her 30's and I would expect a working girl would probably lie and say she is younger. Who knows. Will proceed with caution and a fair amount of skepticism if I do decide to contact her.
Appreciate your perspective.
30s is promising. I would proceed with the following assumptions: a) she is looking to date. if she is isn't interested, no biggie, move on. b) if at some point she attempts to hustle you, I suspect she finds you attractive but not the dating type. I would use this as an opportunity to find out why she has perceived you as not serious on dating. worse case here, you pay her and bang her, then move on. c) if it works out that she is open to courtship, whatever you do - don't talk to her about her junk until it's in your mouth. Godspeed to Victory!
looking for one who is attractive and not hustling.
I wouldn't even bother. Too rare. And, in my case, likes the ladies in her personal life. Hah..
Wow, I just discovered a reason to visit the ATL some time!
Oh I love the ladies! I love guys too!
Having both a provider side of my life and a "personal" one, I keep them separate when it comes to dating as well. If I get a "do you have a boyfriend" Q via one of my ads, I immediately reply that I'm an escort and not looking for dates. On the other hand, I am on a couple of mainstream dating sites and would never look for a "lil sumpin sumpin" when contacted by potential suitors through them. In my brain, its like "What's the point?" Ya fish for fresh water fish in fresh water & salt water fish in the ocean. Can't speak for all tgirls, but if she's fishing for clients on a mainstream dating site that's crappy. imho xoxo Kacy