Yeah.  I do all that.  You're right, it helps.  What I was getting at was how sometimes the level of service goes down anyway, because of other factors.  She might do a great job the first few times because she wants to make a good impression.  Get good tips, maybe snag a regular customer, etc.  Once she thinks she's got you, she starts to relax, just like a wife (or a building contractor).  Maybe she's just been trying to feel you out to find out what you really want, since us guys aren't always very communicative.  Once she figures out what she thinks you want, she might just concentrate on that and skip through the other "unnecessary "stuff she was trying out just to see if you liked it.Or maybe you're just a boring guy that's starting to get on her nerves.This is the kind of stuff I meant.  Anything look familiar?