Like the song goes, some of us like to use whil others like to be abused. Meaningless, everybody goes home and they cuddle with their wife and the provider goes home to cook for her boyfriend.
Women are better liars anyway.
curious as to if re: providers....do your SO know what service you are providing to others and how could it ever feel anything but a service when you are with SO?
"and how could it ever feel anything but a service when you are with SO? " - Regardless of whether someone has an SO, or not, it IS a service and nothing more, but it sounds as if you were expecting more?
Naturally, there are variables within it, as some really love their work, some don't; sometimes you 'click' with a client, sometimes not, and all the YMMV areas..
Some ladies have SOs who know, some don't; some are married, some aren't. There are even a few whose SOs are also in the industry!
I think the ladies have found that it is best for their clients not to know whether they have someone in their personal lives or not, so that clients don't speculate at all. Otherwise, you'd be shocked at how many providers are actually married!
Very well put Sedona, personal information with either party involved should be respected and voiced on a volunteer basis only and prying questions sidetracked or forgotten. Too many questions can make any situation uncomfortable and speculation on eithers part is outside the control of the concerned. Some seem to forget the fact that this is an agreed upon arrangement and that the guidelines are pretty obvious. At some other time or by another perhaps the presence of "dual personas" will be presented to this subject line.
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I don't have an AO so it's not a problem to me. I don't plan on having one as long as I am in this business.
wantyou's question was very hard to follow. But I think he was asking providers with SOs if they felt like they were in a session (providing a service) when they were with their SOs. I have heard the same question asked of people in the adult movie industry. After being on so many films with other partners, how can it be special when you are with your SO? I'll let the providers answer...
Like the song goes, some of us like to use whil others like to be abused. Meaningless, everybody goes home and they cuddle with their wife and the provider goes home to cook for her boyfriend.
Women are better liars anyway.