I'm so sorry but for some reason, I think it's soooo funny to look at her picture and not be able to figure it out myself.  Mind you, us girls can usually tell.  But this one really left me stumped!!!!  Nonetheless, please let us know how it went and SPECIFY her info.  I too work under the name Vanessa and would just die if one of the guys thought I was a dude!!!

xoxo,
v