Going back a couple of years I started with what I would term a wide circle of ladies that I saw, chosen by website and looking at other hobbyist reviews, but over time the circle started to get smaller with the ladies that there was some sort of connection with becoming repeat visits.(I still think the most under appreciated sexual organ is the mind) And there is no doubt that in particular around the third or fourth visit the intensity increases at its highest level. After that I think you,( both parties), need to want it to either grow or move on. I wish more providers felt the same way about interaction and intimacy that it appears that you and Faye do- but I have not found that to be the norm. As long as both parties understand the difference between putting your toes right on the line, but not crossing the line, repeat visits and interaction I find much more satisfying then only one time visits- although a few exploratory missions for variety never hurts either ;~D