The "VIP" option is a very, very dead horse but I'll start the beating. VIP option is a way for girls to upsell. Usually it's done when you ask for something and she says no, you get disappointed, she realizes it, then the haggling begins. For example, "That's only available for VIP papi..." Dishonest girls will test the waters and see what you are into, then deny it, but agree to it for the extra charge and call it "VIP" when in fact it is her scamming you. Legitimate girls have caught on and now offer VIP sessions that include extras like cum or watersports or domination... I generally refuse to see girls who quote "VIP" prices in their ads as I feel every client should be a VIP. If a girl only wants to give proper service for $X, she should charge $X and only see clients who will pay $X.
As for your experience, I can't say since I don't know who it was, but perhaps she was a top. Did she ask for money money to bottom? Maybe she was expecting you to offer it...?Hi, I have a question for all. I recently had a experience that was not bad, just not what I expected. About halfway, I asked to penetrate her, and the response was: " Oh honey I don't get fucked". I was disappointed, but cannot complain because the rest of the session was very nice. I have not reviewed her because I was disappointed but it was very pleasant otherwise and thus do not want to give a bad reference for my miss. I looked at her add again and noticed no VIP option, so am I correct to assume that is what it means? I have been at this a few years and this is the first time this happened so I guess you are never to old to learn. Any input from users or providers welcomed.
The "VIP" option is a very, very dead horse but I'll start the beating. VIP option is a way for girls to upsell. Usually it's done when you ask for something and she says no, you get disappointed, she realizes it, then the haggling begins. For example, "That's only available for VIP papi..." Dishonest girls will test the waters and see what you are into, then deny it, but agree to it for the extra charge and call it "VIP" when in fact it is her scamming you. Legitimate girls have caught on and now offer VIP sessions that include extras like cum or watersports or domination... I generally refuse to see girls who quote "VIP" prices in their ads as I feel every client should be a VIP. If a girl only wants to give proper service for $X, she should charge $X and only see clients who will pay $X.
As for your experience, I can't say since I don't know who it was, but perhaps she was a top. Did she ask for money money to bottom? Maybe she was expecting you to offer it...?
There are ladies who have posted here in the past that defend the practice of the VIP concept, tier, whatever. Back in the day, before I had sprung for a few myself, I bought into the logic that said you get what you pay for. Those experiences, where I forked over for the VIP, were decidedly very un VIP like, so I too am now where if I see that as part of a Lady's marketing, I won't bother calling her at all.
Thanks for the input guys
It just sounds like she doesn't bottom. I'm not seeing how it's a VIP thing unless she offered it as an upsell.
..did she have reviews saying she was only a top? It's hard to really word it in an advertisement, so I could totally see the scenario happening,
... though gents do need to be realistic when it comes to certain fetishes, or special requests. Fully Functional means she can get hard and give you a good time with what is between her legs (no matter the size or act ... Hard is Hard). Those who expect us to be a "cum machine" needs to respect the fact we need to work and your 1 hour and cum request is sabotage to a lady's day (especially if she is on tour) and 1 hour does not nearly cover the cost of a quality lady's overhead. A decision to orgasm with a gentleman should be dictated by her work load (pun is intentional) and the passion of the moment, unless the gentleman wants to compensate her for the inconvenience of her missing out on a following appointment (depending on her recovery time). Anything a provider advertises in her ad or in communications as part of a regular session is what should be delivered ... GFE / PSE / BDSM (and yes, cum if she promises it). EVERY gent is a VIP and through mutual respect (and no "bait & switch") every companion is one as well.
As usual Rachel really summed things up perfectly!