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Drumsticks 90 Reviews 303 reads
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...what's your name?" Of course, you already know her name but it probably would have helped if you spent a little more time telling her your name and what attracted you to her in the first place before asking her to reveal more about herself.  Although this is a business from her and your perspectives, you needn't interact accordingly. It is also highly personal so showing a little charm on the gentleman's end might be key. Oops, I just realized that you asked this of Providers only...my bad  :)

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I recently messaged a provider on another site. She had in posted in her ad that she had pics on her profile. But after going to her profile I found out there were none. So I sent her a message saying exactly this. "Hi. I went to your profile but I did not see any pics. Also, do you have any reviews?"

I did not provide my name, number, email, references etc because at this point I did not know if I wanted to go any farther because I couldn't find any pics or any reviews of her. She replied back that she was still trying to figure out that site and she would add one (no problem, I understand that), but then she said she would expect a proper introduction next time and I should try to make a better impression.  

Was what I asked bad? I didn't ask any questions about activities or anything that could be dangerous. Sure, I didn't provide information about myself, but as I said, I didn't know if I wanted to spend either of our time getting in to all that yet. So ladies, what did I do wrong and what should I have done differently?  

P.S. She has no reviews on either this or the other site. And she has uploaded a couple of pics to her ad now

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emilypaige585 reads

She's probably new and didn't really know what to say.  Sounds like an "err on the side of caution" response.  

That's just a guess on my behalf.  But you didn't do anything wrong IMO.  I wouldn't hand over much information just to ask a simple question either.  

The longer someone is in business, the better their customer service skills get, generally speaking.

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Superbad7676233 reads

Thanks. I didn't think I had messaged her anything bad either.

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GoldieKnox461 reads

To be honest if the post says "pics on profile" but there aren't any: move on. Already one thing that isn't the way she advertised it so why should anything else be correct? Sure, she may be new but unless you planned to TOFTT regardless, it's usually best to wait for them to get a few dates under their belt (so to speak, haha).

 
As far as how to contact someone I prefer people DO NOT contact me unless they are ready to schedule and/or to be screened. I love getting compliments and inquiries but I simply don't have time to answer questions that are already on my website or in my ad.

Related Link: http://goldieknox.com

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Superbad7676319 reads

I can understand not wanting messages if you have all the bases covered in your ad like you probably do. I think she is a newer girl and I have come to suspect that english may not be her first language, so that doesn't help either.

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Drumsticks304 reads

...what's your name?" Of course, you already know her name but it probably would have helped if you spent a little more time telling her your name and what attracted you to her in the first place before asking her to reveal more about herself.  Although this is a business from her and your perspectives, you needn't interact accordingly. It is also highly personal so showing a little charm on the gentleman's end might be key. Oops, I just realized that you asked this of Providers only...my bad  :)

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baileym365423 reads

Thank god there's still someone in this # emoji filled world who believe in proper etiquette introduction. In my opinion I don't care if it's an escort/hobbyist message, there still needs to be some form of a proper classy introduction.

 I would have at least stated your name along with one pleasantry. This may be the sex industry, but it doesn't mean your manners should be lost in the process.  

 It guess it also depends on what class of provider you're searching for. Some are content with receiving a message like that, others will be offended.  

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...what's your name?" Of course, you already know her name but it probably would have helped if you spent a little more time telling her your name and what attracted you to her in the first place before asking her to reveal more about herself.  Although this is a business from her and your perspectives, you needn't interact accordingly. It is also highly personal so showing a little charm on the gentleman's end might be key. Oops, I just realized that you asked this of Providers only...my bad  :)

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