Thanks to those who responded to my previous post. The same shit happened again tonight, and I want to vent.
I just finished DATY and she was wet. I veeerrry slowly inserted a well-manicured finger about knuckle depth. I barely moved it and she winced. I asked what was wrong and she said she usually experienced discomfort from any type of penetration.
Oh, btw, she was all of 20 yrs. old and didn't seem well used.
What am I supposed to do? No way was I gonna insist on FS, as negotiated, if she was hurting.
I am angry because it appears that these providers play on my gentlemanly instincts to never do anything that may harm a woman. They can avoid working too hard and get the same donation. It makes it tough for those who may actually be experiencing some discomfort for whatever reason.
I do my best to explain what I expect for my donation, but it's near impossible given the LE realities. And yes, I expect very basic stuff, excepting that I definitely want to DATY.
Basically, I'm a decent and nice guy looking for all parties to have a good experience. Again, I'm open to all suggestions. Feel free to PM me for any side communication. Thanks to all.
Is her boyfried a blind cab driver by any chance?
Maybe they had a yeast infection
Then she shouldn't be working till it clears up. It can easily spread to the man's mouth and throat during DATY and produce an annoying but highly treatable fungal infestation. Anyway, vaginal fungal infections can be treated by a single dose of Canestan o'night so why would anyone put up with it?
May I suggest useing an mature and fuller provider. Some of us only see one cleint a day, so you might look for that.
Kiss
You can try wearing latex or urethane gloves to cover your nails. You could also try using lotion on your nails a couple of hours before a session, you can work the lotion into your nails fairly easily and it will soften them considerably.
It is possible that two ladies tried to rip you off, but it is also possible that your finger caused them pain.
i find that alot of times being fingered hurts more than intercourse
My roommate notices the same thing
WTF does the girl do at GYN appt's, pass out?
Come on now... one finger to the knuckle? Does she use tampons? Because those are bigger.
Seems to me this girl just doesn't particularly want to have sex, and is running a nifty scam... and if she's cute enough, you might buy it again and again. I can't believe you'd go back though!
Physically speaking this is a bunch of CRAP. Unless this girl has some kind of infection that's making her unusually sensitive... so she either needs to stop scamming people, or go to the doc, one of the two!
Best,
Tamara
I think the whole thread is a bunch of crap and this guy is playing the board with his best violin. I am larger than most and I have big hands. Not once have I ever had someone who complained about the size of either. If you are in touch with your partner and not trying to fist her, then one or two fingers can give a woman quite the rush, especically if she likes that and with a little technique or finesse. DATY at the same time and you typically have a small oil well flowing. But as one infamous poster puts it, "I could be wrong.."
I see that you have only one review, and it's about a positive experience with a SP. While I appreciate the forum that the discussion board provides, we all owe it to one another to review the good and the not-so-good.
We'll decide if she was having an off night or is a scammer, based upon the other reviews that go along with yours.
Please trojan, you owe it to us all....thanks
I DID post a review. TER didn't post it. It turns out she is a known ROB, she now calls herself Stephanie. But my overall issue is that too many providers aren't interested in giving a full experience, unless a hobbyist comes up with at least $$$$. Regards.
Stop chasing these so-called "lookers" and get yourself in the arms of one the REAL providers that grace this board. Me thinks you are in some high stakes russian roulette game with yourself and the target in (on) your head. Many providers will play you right out of your jock, take your dough and ask you to leave. Those agencies that post those wonderful pictures are adept at finding girls to play these games with you and act as their muscle if you decide to get nasty. Find yourself a good 'indie' with a great rep. and watch her take you deep brother.
Play safe and stick it deep.