Some people are to ignorant to know that
One of my ATFs was in a drugstore today, waiting to check out, when someone behind her started talking to her. She tried to ignore him, but he touched her arm to get her attention, and stated that he had read her her reviews and liked her photos. There were two older women in line in addition to the cashier, so this attentjon made her extremely uncomfortable.
Do not talk to a Lady in public, bringing unwanted attention to her. She may be with family or friends, other people can overhear what you say, and your attention is unwanted.
Contact the Lady in the manner in which she requests, and respect her privacy when in public.
RocketMan
I'm thinking anyone stupid enough to do that in line at the drugstore doesn't know how to read. Probably won't get the memo. Good advice.
At least they make the rest of us look good.
How do you know it made her uncomfortable? Did you approach her and ask her? Or are you the one that approached her in the first place? Maybe you got on the phone with her as soon as she left and asked her about it. Maybe he/you should have called/texted her while she was standing in line in front of you/him. Depending of course on her preferred method of contact. What ever would we do without you to tell us how to act in public.
Personally, I like to walk by them, slap them on the ass and state in a loud voice "thanks for last time baby is that my money your spending!" LLLMMMFFFAAAOOO.
Not cute ballpointnut! It happened to me! And I get a lot of stuff out in public. Us women (the same as u men) have personal and private lives outside of this life as well and that should be respected on both sides. He's just being a sweet man who respects us...and he's right! When I see a client friend I don't act in that manner. There has to be a line of respect for each other's personal lives drawn.
And ty to everyone else who understands and respects what he posted...that's real me
I somehow doubt that you (or any other client) would appreciate it if a provider approached you in public and complimented you on a review you'd written especially if a family member or your boss was present. Providers are people too; they have private lives and feelings. A little respect goes a long way.
Some people are to ignorant to know that
This is EXACTLY why I refuse to go shopping with my boss at Walgreens. lol
I don't hide what I do. I am a single man in my prime. I am not ashamed of what I do. As a matter of fact I recently turned a co-worker to the dark side. If a hooker thought enough of me to approach me in a unplanned public setting I would be flattered.
It happened to me twice and that is during a time when I had left the business and was engaged. Luckily my then fiance knew about my past but nevertheless he was not happy. That caused some serious trust issues with us.
My thing is any man with half a brain should already know the dog's and don'ts
Thanks for educating those who need it
U mentioned that "any man with half a brain" would know how to act, and react. It just takes common sense and respect, which, sadly, is often lacking in some people's day-to-day lives.
What Rocket Man 36 says is so obviously true, there would be no need for discussion, if not for the ignorance and just plain stupidity of some people!
I agree with you what RM said was worth mentioning, unfortunately you have miserable people who high jack every note worthy thread on here and constantly ridicule others because their nothing but an Ass who gets off on being mean every chance they get
Some peeps just don't get sarcasm.
When our eyes meet and the recognition is there...it's a very sexy "I've got a secret" feeling.
I have encountered clients in public many times (once even when on vacation in Hawaii at a grocery store with my husband when I was no longer in the business).
NEVER, EVER, EVER approach someone from the "hobby" in public. If a gentleman were to shoot me a text and say "Hey, I saw you having a drink at the bar with your girlfriend. I'm not in mixed company so feel free to say hello if you're comfortable" I would very likely come say hello unless I was with my mother!
Anyway...discretion goes both ways. And on that note...see my thread above!
I have encountered clients in public many times (once even when on vacation in Hawaii at a grocery store with my husband when I was no longer in the business).
NEVER, EVER, EVER approach someone from the "hobby" in public. If a gentleman were to shoot me a text and say "Hey, I saw you having a drink at the bar with your girlfriend. I'm not in mixed company so feel free to say hello if you're comfortable" I would very likely come say hello unless I was with my mother!
Anyway...discretion goes both ways. And on that note...see my thread above!