Phoenix

Foreplay
Tuczynski 35 Reviews 311 reads
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london, I would gladly take you out for dinner....... and desert.  I have suggested to other providers that offering food as part of the experience would be positive since I remember the old adage...."Men are interested in two things....food and sex....if he doesn't have an erection make him a ham sandwich".

Good morning guys! Question for ya. Do you prefer some time at the beginning of the date for a glass of wine or dinner, maybe in a hotel restaurant, etc. to get to know the provider a little better? I know time is money so it's not always the most economical, but do you find that it enhances the experience? For me it does. Don't get me wrong, oftentimes the "let's get right to it" scenario is super hot too. But generally speaking, a little chat time, with a drink, can calm us both down, settle the nerves, makes us both more comfy with the scenario being legit, and leads to not only a hotter experience, but creates a connection that lasts beyond the first meet. I know some guys agree, probably some disagree. For some, getting to know the provider might have made the situation worse, haha!  Just curious about your thoughts. Have a great week! :)

- London

Met a provider in Tempe at her apt, then had a session, then went to Panda Express on Guadalupe then had an extra bbbj session in the parking lot of Panda Express.  Her number stopped working some time ago supposedly moved to California - I need to track her down...

Double Orange Chicken is the only way to go - with chow main!
 

Posted By: LondonPaige
Good morning guys! Question for ya. Do you prefer some time at the beginning of the date for a glass of wine or dinner, maybe in a hotel restaurant, etc. to get to know the provider a little better? I know time is money so it's not always the most economical, but do you find that it enhances the experience? For me it does. Don't get me wrong, oftentimes the "let's get right to it" scenario is super hot too. But generally speaking, a little chat time, with a drink, can calm us both down, settle the nerves, makes us both more comfy with the scenario being legit, and leads to not only a hotter experience, but creates a connection that lasts beyond the first meet. I know some guys agree, probably some disagree. For some, getting to know the provider might have made the situation worse, haha!  Just curious about your thoughts. Have a great week! :)  
   
 - London

london, I would gladly take you out for dinner....... and desert.  I have suggested to other providers that offering food as part of the experience would be positive since I remember the old adage...."Men are interested in two things....food and sex....if he doesn't have an erection make him a ham sandwich".

Lol!!! There's a guy who gets it! ;) And you're right, food can be an aphrodisiac too! And it makes the dessert so much more enjoyable if you've just spend some time looking at it! :)

I don't enjoy sexual activity on a full stomach. But, after a wild and wonderful session of athletic sexual excitement, I'm starving.
I have had some really cool "after party" meals with a few providers that I get along with. Spending the time in the afterglow of the fun is really relaxed and intimate to me.

1st) Always eat afterwards, always.
2nd) I thought foreplay was dropping off the cash

I always offer to have a drink or dinner to start the date off. Some say yes some no a few it was standard for us to have dinner then back for couple hours of play. Makes the date much more relaxed, exciting, and fulfilling.

Taking time to talk over dinner makes the provate time more exciting

First, I'll answer yes to your question, in my Hobbying days, spending a few minutes and enjoying a drink or two, maybe even dinner, was a great way to relax us both before we went BCD.
In addition, I'd like to compliment you on your presentation, your question, and your observations.  We've never met, and you're (way) too young for me, but, if I was Hobbying, and you were older, you'd be atop me to-do list!

Haha, thank you for the kind words! And I'm not as young as you might think but either way, I'll take it! ;) - London

I always prefer a dinner date. A two hour visit is good for a first visit and sipping some water while getting acquainted, but sitting together while getting to see who enjoys seafood vs real food and who is willing to split a succulent dessert while enjoying an aperitif is always more enticing. Not to mention it's always exciting to watch a good looking lady gobble a medium steak with all the accompaniments. What can I say, a lady who knows how to eat knows how to love!

A recently retired provider had a $100 hourly social fee in addition to her regular rates.
We enjoyed many meals and drinks at an equitable rate that enhanced the experience for both of us.

A meet up before the main course always makes it better, getting to know someone, makes the intimacy much better, (at least with most people).  I would always like a little get to know you time!

I have to agree with you.  A glass of wine does help to break the ice.   A meal is also a nice way.  Especially on the first mtg..  On the second or third date it can make a great time for flirting ect,  
 

Posted By: LondonPaige
Good morning guys! Question for ya. Do you prefer some time at the beginning of the date for a glass of wine or dinner, maybe in a hotel restaurant, etc. to get to know the provider a little better? I know time is money so it's not always the most economical, but do you find that it enhances the experience? For me it does. Don't get me wrong, oftentimes the "let's get right to it" scenario is super hot too. But generally speaking, a little chat time, with a drink, can calm us both down, settle the nerves, makes us both more comfy with the scenario being legit, and leads to not only a hotter experience, but creates a connection that lasts beyond the first meet. I know some guys agree, probably some disagree. For some, getting to know the provider might have made the situation worse, haha!  Just curious about your thoughts. Have a great week! :)  
   
 - London

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