....I would be out of business. What is up with some providers that don't have the common courtesy to reply to email, PM, text or call or however they prefer to be contacted? I understand people are busy, but come on! I can only assume that this is a "hobby" for them and not their business, because if it is, I hope they have a sugar daddy taking care of them else I am sure they are starving. What is really frustrating is when they post and you contact them within 5 minutes and there is (ta da) no response. Even worse, after weeks of trying, when you finally get a response and engage in a convo, they leave you hanging in the middle of the convo. There are a lot of providers that are really good at keeping in touch, and you know who you are. I wish all girls would be more like you.
How often have you been disappointed literally minutes after the Provider left that you knew you wasted your time and money? It happens just like when you hit a home run with a Provider ..one you clicked with and one you can't wait to see again. If you reach out with a nicely written email introducing yourself and why you reached out to them and they only respond with a one sentence answer, then you might use that as an indicator that she might not live up to your expectations. If it takes her 3 days ( yes I know people get busy) then again maybe you should pass. The conversation doesn't flow....you should consider that and probably pass. Not always as their are exceptions to every rule but in most cases it should speak volumes that you're likely to be disappointed.
I've always felt those are helpful in determining whether it's going to be a totally transactional time together just checking the boxes or whether it's going to be a fantastic couple of hours and a true chemistry match.
I'm sure it's quite prevalent. I haven't had that happen very often. But, it does happen sometimes.
Some of the ladies I see, are part time providers and have other world professions, jobs and families . So, sometimes their hobby phone is not always their first priority.
Sometimes, the technology lets us down. Missed text messages etc.
I do tend to see certain ladies regularly and for quite a while now, have not ventured out to many new providers, so I know each of their different issues and have been lucky enough to miss out on the flakes in the business.
I probably would give up on someone that is difficult to communicate with.
There are so many really great ladies out there. There are no reasons to stick with what's not working.
A bad case of blue balls can cause much frustration. Just smile and move on
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We certainly understand the frustration when communication stalls...which is why we always try to get back to someone within 6-12 hours. I think we got back to you within 4 hours because it sounds like we will have a lot of fun when we get together...looking forward to it!
Tori
That stinks that you feel frustrated. I know it happens to genuine, good guys that follow the rules . I usually respond almost immediately unless I am in an appointment. Then it's always right after I am free. The one liner inappropriate texts or phone calls with no message will sometimes not get ananswer, but nice messages always will.
My suggestion is that maybe when searching for a provider when one peaks your interest, read her reviews. I believe that if other hobbiests comment that the provider is easy to contact and she is professionalooking and If her ratings are high, you can probably rest assured that she wouldn't jeopardize her business by being a flake.
There are many of us our there that appreciate and welcome new friends. Good luck
Actually, You ARE bad, but in a much better way LOL! When it comes to politeness, punctuality, and true giving, you're absolutely OUTSTANDING! But, alas, you're also BAAAD LOL!
Bad Girls attract bad boys. Wink, wink. Thanks Jeffery! It's been a while....😗
I'm just a perve.
Sorry...couldn't hep myself! 
If I ran my business like some hobbyists, I'd be broke or in an insane asylum. What's up with some hobbyists short changing you on donation? I have to make the awkward call or email stating "hey did you forget something" or do I just lose the money?
What is really frustrating is when you state clearly your days & time of availability, but some fools ask for your non working days anyways. Or even worse when they know they didn't pass your screening requirements yet continue to ask for an appointment or write a shitty revenge review.
Hhhhhmmmm, so this could be "The rest of the story!"
Always seems to be part of a story left out when someone whines about service out of thin air with a resentment.
Ok, back to some serious pleasure everyone
The key to contacting me is to keep it simple and professional for the first meeting. I don't feel like I have the option of running this like a business due to several concerns about my safety and discretion. We work hard to get good reviews so that you guys have access to information on us. All I ask in return is read my post and follow the rules. If you do that I almost guarantee a response.