Phoenix

Very well said!
clubjeffe 97 Reviews 253 reads
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No sense in wasting your time

I'm finding the problem with 21-25 yo providers on BP, even when TER reviewed, is reliability. No surprise I guess. All I can do is share here.

Meg: For starters, I'm an idiot, because she did this to me before. I didn't realize it was the same girl. She went by Megan before. We text, we confirm a time, I confirm I am on my way, get response, I arrive...BS starts. Both times - "I need 10 more minutes." 15 minutes go by. 1st time, she tells me she's sorry, but her room is flooding and she needs 5 more minutes. Strings that along for 45 minutes. When I am through waiting and leave unhappy, she swears she'll make it up to me if I don't post anything negative about her. I texted her 4 times the following week, no reply. This time, she is posting as Meg, and she has a good review. Same deal. In fact, before I leave she says: "Are you coming for sure? If not lmk cuz I don't like to be stood up!" I assure her I'm coming and text when I arrive. "I need 10 more minutes LOL" After 15 minutes, no reply, I realize it's her and let her know I'm leaving and pissed because I didn't know it was her and fell for her BS again. I asked why she does this to people. Here are some of her responses:
"If u want to see me give me ten." (this after 20 minutes)
"Settle down. Do you have to go to work babe? Ya know Im on the phone with my mom lol."
"You don't have to sit in the parking lot. Mickey ds."
"Read my review again. It says shes not always on time."
"If my mom wants to gab my ear off and I have a john waiting in the parking lot...im going to let her blow off steam cuz I love my family."
So, just know what you are in for with this one.

Kay Kay: again, good reviews. I'm in the neighborhood after the 30 minute drive to my no show with Meg. We text, response right away, confirmation, she's 20 minutes away. I go to her location. Radio silence... It is now 2 hours later and no reply. I'm guessing she was up partying all night and passed out. But how would I know?

So there you go - 2 more stars from BP, both with TER reviews. Go at your own risk.

I have a similar repeat experience with another provider who I am not ready to call out yet because I still hold out hope I can see her because she is HOT and, from what I hear, a great time. Have had 2 appointments set up and arrived at her incall at waited in the parking Lot for room number and no text or email. Both times I waited 30 minutes. Both times I got a message 5+ hours later kind of apologizing but not explaining what happened. Both appointments have been morning appointments where I had to juggle some things around to make them happen. I know the provider is legit and well reviewed. I have buddies that have seen her multiple times. I guess I chalk it up to morning versus afternoon/evening and have learned my lesson.  

Other than This forum there is no way to let other hobbyists know.  

I guess this is all just part of the hobby.

....but how dumb can you be?  You've seen THREE Providers that you've given TEN/TEN rating to in the past six weeks, and you're wasting your time chasing some flake who has STOOD YOU UP TWICE already?   That enabling  behavior, reinforcing that you still want to see her, plays right into her hands and is just plain DUMB!
Out her on here, do the right thing for others so she won't be enabled.  Try, just try, to think with your Big Head, instead of the little one, and why not go back to see one of the 10/10's that you've obviously enjoyed?

No sense in wasting your time

ShillBill449 reads

I'll beg for sex, I'll pay for sex, but I dam sure won't beg to pay for sex. Not sure how coined the saying, but it does seem appropriate in your situation.

Makes us do stupid shit. And, variety is the spice of life.  Isn't that what a lot of us are after?

May this be a lesson to us all. I have a similar incident with a provider in the east coast, in fact she was my first escort experience - Terrible !!. Same lies, flood in the room , blah, blah, blah.

Freemoney318 reads

Maybe you should try the mom that is in the pictures with her. Lol dude sorry to here I just don't get the games . Guess they are just rolling in the donations!

I feel ya.  Been there, done that...  Its damned annoying.

My standard policy now is that I wait 15 minutes.  MAX.  If I have not heard from her within 15 minutes of arriving on time to her incall, I leave.  Period.  Just did that yesterday.  Will do it again next week, I'm sure.  And then I do NOT call that person ever again.  Fool me once, shame on you... well, you know the rest.

There are plenty more out there.  And once I find someone who is reliable, I keep calling her again and again. Its pretty simple.  

Just remember that your time is worth something too, and if she obviously has no respect for your time before your get in her room, do you honestly expect that to change afterwards?...

one of her latest reviews someone said she tried the I have to leave the room scam, when I texted her she was trying to pull crap on me too and my hobby spidey sense kicked in and I bailed, but tried two times and she did the same shit, I gave her well advanced notice I was driving her way, then once parked, gimme 15 minutes, nope, I bailed

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