...I always respond to reference requests, and welcome them. Since I moved to Phoenix, it seems like it's harder to get one. I had much better luck getting references on the east coast. Makes things a lot more difficult here, unfortunately.
MariahWhy is it so hard to get providers to respond back to reference checks? I respond to every last one I get.... but I legit only get back 1 out of 10 I send out? This is bad business ladies
I feel your pain but in a different way. I've had providers attempt to verify me with ladies I've seen several times only to be told that they have never heard of me but the same ladies miraculously remember me when I contact them to schedule another session.
I don't know how other hobbyists handle that but I stopped seeing them after they played that game.
I am rarely seeing escorts these days as verification is a pain in the ass...there needs to be better process to make it work from both our ends...
Will a facetime/skype video call be a good verification method? Think out of the box of how to make it work....It might be a good 5 minute effort from both our ends to feel safe...
...I always respond to reference requests, and welcome them. Since I moved to Phoenix, it seems like it's harder to get one. I had much better luck getting references on the east coast. Makes things a lot more difficult here, unfortunately.
Mariah
This is why I use P411 and DateCheck. I hate asking someone I have seen to get sent requests. With the services, they do it once, and the info is stored. Very convenient for everyone. (Of course, you have to pay for the convenience... but thats always the case.)
The providers in Denver are the worse, they don't get back with you at all. So I have my own verification process now instead of going through the headaches.
She told me one of the biggest issues was getting reference responses from local providers. I don't know if if's the idea that if they give a referral, they'll loose a client.
It seems to me that if someone with a verifiable provider history asks about a guy with a verifiable history, then it should be no big deal to get a reference. Then again, I think everyone should just get along and play nice