Well yet another session lands in the toilet. While I've met some ladies who absolutely love a large man, a fair number of the ladies I have seen recently clearly would prefer otherwise. As much of my sexual enjoyment is predicated on the enjoyment either real or faked by my partner, when I can tell she is uncomfortable or at worst in pain, it obviously ruins the experience for me.
Yeah I know, boo hoo for me. Well fuck that! Being well endowed is not all it's cracked up to be. Size queens PM me
lol
I have some clients who are well endowed who I can't seem to get enough of, but I have some that I'm in pain the entire time. I think it really does come down to each person individually, and also how well they know how to use their size. Some guys literally think they can go around sticking that thing every where and it's not going to hurt. However, some guys understand there is certain positions that can make things more pleasurable for a woman if you're more well endowed.
Good luck on your search!
Can you hear that? Listen, do you hear it? Ssshhhhhhh
It's the worlds smallest violin, and it's playing sad, sad music just for you.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
LOL! Say hi to your wife for me Fear.
It's the worlds smallest violin, and it's playing sad, sad music just for you.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
HA! If I was married or ever planned to be, that would almost piss me off.
It's the worlds smallest violin, and it's playing sad, sad music just for you.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I've had some pretty big cock on film and trust me there was a lot of preparation involved, including using ice to numb myself down there and lots of lube and even vaseline and even then it required that I take a toke of some strong weed (I don't smoke) and a couple drinks.
My vaginal canal is small.
I prefer average to small penis. 7" is perfect.
Yeah yeah, next you will tell us that you are insanely rich, speak 12 languages, and are also underwear model.
JK. Not sure I can offer any practical help, since I don't have your particular 'problem', lol. But I'm guessing position selection matters a great deal here. I'd guess CG/RCG should be good for both. Also, try to provide a bit of stimulation for her before (FIV if available, DATY if you are comfortable, toys, etc).
But my bottom line would be this (sorry, i can't remember where I first heard this, so I can't properly attribute it): Sex is awesome. And if it isn't awesome, find someone else
Are you too long? Too thick?
Too long can be resolved (a bit) by the positions you choose and by you purposely not burying yourself "balls deep"...keep in mind that a woman's vagina is, in general. only about 3-4 inches deep, and many women don't care for the feeling of having their uterus bumped, so be mindful about how far in you go.
If you are super thick, try more foreplay (slow fingering works) and LUBE, LUBE, LUBE ! If you can get her vaginal muscles to relax and stretch a bit before you try penetration, she might be more able to take your thicker member.
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I have the same issue as OP. The funny thing is, I used to be quite the player when I more fit/athletic looking and never had a problem. In fact, most women loved how big I was. I'm heavier now and don't feel comfortable/confident enough to date so I've entered to hobby and it was an issue with the last provider that I saw. My sexual enjoyment is completely tied to the enjoyment of my partner as well and I went flaccid as soon as I realized it was painful for her. Sucks, but I feel your pain OP. I will let you know if I find anyone who enjoys well-endowed men.
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Kind of like Midnight basketball was used to reduce gangs, the government should provide free gym memberships and personal chefs to hobbyists to reduce provider demand and get hobbyists back in shape for outside women.
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Hey, I own it. Lol. No shame in my game.