I am about to see a provider for the first time and I have a question. The provider's website claimed she required references for verification. When I contacted her via e-mail to set a date, I informed her that I had no references. She said that she could verify through work. After going back and forth via e-mails for a couple weeks, we decided on a date. She said to call her that morning and leave a message to confirm, but said or asked nothing about my work info for verification????
Now I'm worried/paranoid that this could be a setup. The provider is well reviewed with 3 pages of reviews. I checked out the reviews and they all seem legit, because they each have reviewed other ladies as well. Am I just being paranoid?????
Please advise...
Three pages of reviews, I'd say you are a tad paranoid, but if it makes you feel any better, check out the guys that reviewed her and send them a Personal Message, they'll be glad to validate her legitimacy.
All that back and forth, and she has 3 pages of reviews...
seems legit to me.
It is more likely that she managed to verify you on-line to her own satisfaction.
If you are still concerned, ask to meet her in a public place for a drink pre-appointment. Make sure it is the lady in the pics, and that she doesn't say anything to make you nervous. Have fun!
Be afraid. Be very afraid. Overfunded local police departments routinely place female cops in what they call "deep cover". These recruits pretend to be providers for years. In addition to fake reviews written by male psychologists in LE employ which are designed to appeal to men with a wandering eye, these "deep cover" female cops actually perform the acts one would associate with providers. Their bodies are dusted for fingerprints after each encounter. These prints are fed into a Cray supercomputer and compared to the fingerprints taken from the bills "hobbyists" leave with the phony provider. Any match is compared to the computer keystroke analysis that the Department of Homeland Security routinely performs on all domestic emails. The result is an incontrovertible chain of evidence documenting intent to perform, solicitation, and performance of illegal acts.
The cops then contact your wife, your children, your boss, and representatives of any church or social group to which you happen to belong, local media, and Dan Rather and notify them to be there at the time of your arrest. Please excuse me. The voices are getting kind of loud and I need to change the aluminum-foil lining in my hat.
Good one, Clyde! All this and we still can't find Osama bin Laden...
We can't find Osama because our search expert's not changing the foil often enough.
If he wasn't paranoid before, by now he's terrified.
It sounds like youve got about the complete information your ever going to get on the legitimacy of a provider. (Other than a letter of official stationary notorized by a judge from your local authorities explaining she has absolutely no association with them. In fact, they have never heard of her). Relax, go on your date. Have a good time. You only live once. Post a review.