Especially in a world that currently uses electronic transmission to administer most of its correspondent's  correspondence, I feel that I am oftentimes a mere name that has been inserted into a standard template for mass-inquiry within this community. This must be what makes it so meaningless and impersonal for choosing who to boot amidst a double- (or triple, etc) booked event. After all, a skimmed through profile found on the Internet surely isn't a real person, unless you've met them, right?  
   
 So, choose the appropriate package template, insert name, and send out the invites in Bcc form. Then, upon all response, eliminate those who rank just under first choice, if she complies, to ensure you'll have a date when the time comes to your availability. "What's the harm in that" / "who cares... these ladies only exist once I've met them", right? "Besides, they're so busy they'll never even notice an impact if I make up a story and cancel our appt", right?  
   
 Wrong. Wrong. And wrong!  
   
 Is this how business is done in your line of work? Our country would surely be a much different place if it were.  
   
 Now I suppose that feeling like a template insertion is the preferred flip of the coin, versus those instances that required the dedication of long-term correspondence, who then takes you by total surprise when the time to actually meet, begins to approach. By then, their lame story is  taken as much more personal than the typical one or two-response method of setting an appt. Investment is just that - applicable unto the overall return. When there becomes no return, you feel as though you've been taken advantage of for your time and efforts... and THAT is definitely personal.  
   
 And so many of you who do 'muti-book' (because to call it "double-booking" would be an understatement regarding real figures) would argue that, "it's because escorts are so flaky when it comes to actually showing up for a booked meeting". Really? To that, I say:  
 (1) that's a stereotype equivalent to saying, "all priests molest alter boys"  
 (2) who's to even say the one you actually kept the appt with... your first choice... will even show up when the time comes, ESPECIALLY given that "all priests molest alter boys"??  
   
 An act such as this is not only damaging to the productivity of an escort, but in most cases damaging to her emotional state as well. ...Because she DOES exist... is a real person... and has feelings and a real life outside this community, just as any of you do.  
   
 Want to know how to fortify your odds in favor of a booking NOT cancelling on you (in a world where nothing is 100% on foresight)? Read her reviews (yes, this is the part where YOU invest...). On the boards containing those reviews, private mssg her reviewers, asking if there was ever an issue with prior cancellation or punctuality. I guarantee he'll be honest with you, and this even further opens the doorway to ask more personal questions, for determining an even deeper sense of compatibility with your prospective escort.  
   
 Now on the other hand (and something I need to realize)... a narcissist is as a narcissist does. So which are you?