your right the selection of women willing to admit being 40 or over is limited when you start adding in other criteria like you mentioned. I would open my search up to 34 plus as many are actually older but look younger. It is a daunting search but when you find a good one she is usually great, As age usually weeds out the mediocre ones.
Posted By: Lancer2000 However, doing a search is not always that fruitful. By the time you weed out the BBWs (certainly BIG but not always BEAUTIFUL), the locations that are too far out of the way (Ontario, Riverside, Palmdale, Orange County), the motel queens, etc., the pickings become rather slim. Add to this the ones whose websites/phone numbers/emails are no longer active and the list dwindles even more (pretty much anyone who has not had a review in over 9 months).
And, frankly, there are some providers who just plain scare me...after reading some of the reviews, I can't visualize myself with them. To each his own and if whips, chains, handcuffs and giant dildos inserted into you are your thing...so be it. More power to you for you are more adventuresome than I.
Finally, I have seen some of these ladies but have - for whatever reason - never gotten around to reviewing them (some have "No Reviews Please" policies). On Cityvibe's Mature section Callie and Seleste (she used to spell it Celeste, British Celeste, etc.) both asked that I not write any reviews.
A couple of my reviews have been removed. Swedish Anna out of Phoenix was black-listed for some reason. Angie/Robin was taken off, but I think she is now "Donna" on Cityvibe and she could also be "Holly" on ThatMall. Finally, a couple of ladies seemed to exhibit a 'condom optional' policy which didn't sit well with me so I no longer see them.
I do have my eye on "Tonya" (Cityvibe) and "Jana/Eve" (ThatMalll). There is also "Annaeuro" out of Las Vegas whom I find quite tempting. Other than that, there is not much of a selection in my age range. Selection is a very subjective process.