Everywhere I see someone asking around to be pointed in the direction of a provider, someone comes along and has some snarky comment about how the parameters of their search will render it fruitless.
I'm looking for someone tonight- "all providers require 24+ hour notice" I'm looking for a happy ending massage under $150- "everyone in your price range is a BP thief" I'm looking for my first provider- "no references, no one will see you" And so on and so forth. The thing is, none of these responses are actually true. There is nothing wrong with the top-shelf, maximum-security, 500/hr girls. There is some truth to the adage that you get what you pay for, and they're probably all very lovely. But when a newbie or an out-of-towner comes here looking to find someone outside of that category, why do we pretend that's all there is in this town? There are plenty of very attractive girls who do massages/HE for lower rates. Plenty of great providers who will see a first-timer (obviously, or nobody would have ever seen anyone!) Plenty of great providers who take same-day appointments. So why not just point them in that direction, rather than hit them with the snarkhammer?1) some people just like to be snarky. Dealing in accurate info isn't the point for them. They're here for attention.
2) some might come off snarky when really they just don't have a full view of the available inventory...just bad info but not really bad intent
3) some ISOs really are ludicrous..."I want the super-hot-hot-hottiest, she has to take fiv, bbbjtccimnqns, she can't have tattoos, piercings, attitude, or frizzy hair, needs to have a good face(no overrated GNDs for me..I need DDG), can't have a bit o flab anywhere, has to have natural DDD and no sag, must like Sheldon from BBT, has to be willing to do 3 shots in 30 minutes, and needs to be affordable...like $20-30 for the HH affordable...oh, and BBFS is a must, I have papers to prove I'm clean"...clearly my example is exaggerated...but...you get the point
4) some dudes don't do any of their own research, personally...I never post a public request in this realm until after I've done some searching...the request is more like "I'm looking for this..so and so looks close...anyone with experience that can verify or recommend similar?" Or the like...people don't like doing other people's work for them.
5) there are legitimately some factors when combined that reduce the available inventory...maybe to zero...Irish girls that do anal and light S&M in 30 min appointments with MSOG same day set up are probably going to be hard to find...for instance. Props for knowing what you want....but...good luck finding it.
6) some dudes have a very low view of women and it comes across in their ISO. The snarky response is probaly more geared toward their attitude than the actual request. It is most often correlated to price or sometimes screening practices from what I've seen..."no over-priced whores for me...150/hr or less". That's fine as ppl can choose whatever threshold they are comfortable with. But, they need to not judge or ridicule a lady that chooses to charge a higher rate just b/c they wouldn't pay it. lady sets her price...us johns are either willing to pay it or not. Then, those who see her, we either recommend repeating or we don't. The free market system then goes to work. If the girl starts losing money...she will lower her prices or up her service until such time as she reaches that happy point where she makes what she wants. If she never makes that...she quits. If she's getting lots of action at current price point, she might up her prices to see what the market will tolerate. She'll charge whatever she can to maximize her return
7) I don't think it always true...but...in some instances you get what you pay for. If you have a hard/fast line at $200/hr or less...there are many girls you won't be able to see. Are there BP girls that would be willing to work for that...sure. But, you may not find the well reviewed pro you're hoping for that is available at the higher price point. The snarky response may be pointing out another aspect of unrealistic expectations.
8) I respectfully disagree with one aspect of your last paragraph. There is plenty of opportunity at all levels. The issue is not that "we" communicate only 500/hr girls...the issue is when a john tries to make a 500/hr girl become a 200/hr girl for them or otherwise criticizes their price point. If you aren't willing to pay their price...move on. As you said...their are other options if you are willing to play in that realm.
Anyway...those are the top of the head thoughts....I'm sure there are other reasons....
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Very well said!!
Thank you sweetie.