Although I agree it might provide some type of security or ease of mind to talk, I don't see that if you are talking to a male you should assume its the potential client... I bet there could be a conversation between a sister and brother saying "hey I think Jo is seeing some girl on the side, can you (brother) call her (phone number that appears on the call history) and see if she talks to you and who she is?" granted it would take a little more work but do you truly ever know who you are talking to, on either side of the phone?
I've been reading reviews were the hobbyist say that they text the provider multiple times before setting up an appointment. A few of them also say that they agree on services before hand. I always thought that you're not supposed to send multiple text or to talk about any services before hand. When I send a text it's only to ask if they are available at a certain time or ask about the donation if it's not listed in their ad. I don't think that providers really want to text back and forth or have long conversations before hand, am I wrong?
I have posted many times about this... I often wondered why providers did not like texting and offered that a phone call provides no more or less security and privacy ... there was much debate and it was useful. That being said, I remember there being discussion that the texts should be kept to a bare minimum and nothing should be discussed via text. *this was the opinion from most providers.. so to give my 2 cents, 1. I LOVE to text because I'm usually in my office and can't talk and the providers who accept text always get my call, and 2. I would never and have never discussed anything more than availability and location.
That is the way to do it!
For my FBSM clients, I prefer texting and only for setting a time and general directions. I won't discuss anything other than time and location...I might be a little on the "too overly cautious" side, but I cannot imagine talking about actual services, either via text, on the phone. Now with fetish-y types, I prefer email, I do want to know their interests, since I have certain things I prefer to do and I don't want to be setting an appointment that will be a waste of time
I see this "we agreed on services" in reviews a lot and I would worry about seeing anyone who is willing to discuss services like that here in AZ.
K
...but I don't mind the texting as long as I'm not busy doing something else. I feel as though it's a form or foreplay ;o)
MsM
I do not accept or do any texting at all. How do I know it John Doe and not his wife/girlfriend?
Plus it leaves a paper trail.
I realize it is easier for some but I am old fashioned and want to TALK to the person.
Although I agree it might provide some type of security or ease of mind to talk, I don't see that if you are talking to a male you should assume its the potential client... I bet there could be a conversation between a sister and brother saying "hey I think Jo is seeing some girl on the side, can you (brother) call her (phone number that appears on the call history) and see if she talks to you and who she is?" granted it would take a little more work but do you truly ever know who you are talking to, on either side of the phone?
And if you aren't talking about anything inappropriate, what difference does it make who you "might" be talking to? Granted I have some clients I do share a naughty text with on occasion, but I only do that because we have discussed their phone and text protocol, so I feel comfortable with that. If one of my regular clients who know better was suddenly texting me naughty things, I would be suspicious enough to not respond.
K
If it's someone that I have a long-term relationship with, I'd never discuss things that would be questionable. Minor things, yes, something indiscreet maybe depending on the level of fun shared, but things about donations or actions, that would be totally outside the realm of acceptability